danse macabre

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What moment reminded you that life is fleeting—and how did that feel?

Prompt created by yours truly. 
Feel free to use any prompts for April 2026 that I post and/or tag me.
I’d love to read your responses.

TRIGGER WARNING: murder, suicide, depression, death

There have been a few moments in my life that I realized how precious our lives are and that our time on earth is limited.

  • I had a patient who died from a murder-suicide.
  • when my dad died unexpectedly
  • when I accidentally struck a deer while driving home in the middle of the night
  • when my pitbull died despite surviving: oral cancer, brain tumor, torn ACL, and degenerative disc in her spine
  • when my favorite uncle passed away from cancer
  • when I got t-boned at an intersection
  • I had another instance when the husband of a patient jumped off the parking structure.
  • one of my attending mentors died from cancer
  • fetal demise babies that I’ve had to deliver
  • putting my cat to sleep after having complications of congestive heart failure
  • another attending mentor was hit by a car and died instantly

With that being said, this is another driving force as to why I try to do so many things, feel as many feels as possible, and go to as many different places as I can.

I suppose… another reason why I feverishly write on this blog and post daily is because I know that one day, the posts will stop (not by choice) and that my words will be my legacy (for better or for worse).


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16 responses to “danse macabre”

  1. Ajinkya Rane Avatar

    Life is too short to not do the things you love. Good on you for doing them!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yassss thank you!!

  2. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Cheer up you lovely super intelligent thing!!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol thanks, Nico!

  3. Info-Man Avatar

    Bless you 💜💜 , take care!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you ~~

  4. Prog2Goal Avatar

    That’s a lot of trauma. I can see how those life experiences would influence you. Keep on posting!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, friend!!

  5. utahan15 Avatar

    when the man who saved my life was killed by a drunk driver
    a highly skilled cardio surgeon
    and me a worthless pile of shit still alive
    why?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Life is like that sometimes

      1. utahan15 Avatar

        channeling your inner denny seraphine again. let s put on the instrumental mono and do the cha cha cha with the blinds open!

        1. justrojie Avatar

          🤣

          1. utahan15 Avatar

            so i must take care of the burden i lay on you.

  6. myallaboutyou Avatar

    You have seen a lot of tragedy. Do you have any fleeting moments which excited you that you know will never happen again?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Ooh this is a good one! I’ll answer this in a separate post! Thank you!

      1. myallaboutyou Avatar

        Wonderful. 😉😉

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