danse macabre

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What moment reminded you that life is fleeting—and how did that feel?

Prompt created by yours truly. 
Feel free to use any prompts for April 2026 that I post and/or tag me.
I’d love to read your responses.

TRIGGER WARNING: murder, suicide, depression, death

There have been a few moments in my life that I realized how precious our lives are and that our time on earth is limited.

  • I had a patient who died from a murder-suicide.
  • when my dad died unexpectedly
  • when I accidentally struck a deer while driving home in the middle of the night
  • when my pitbull died despite surviving: oral cancer, brain tumor, torn ACL, and degenerative discs in her spine
  • when my favorite uncle passed away from cancer
  • when I got t-boned at an intersection
  • I had another instance when the husband of a patient jumped off the parking structure.
  • one of my attending mentors died from cancer
  • fetal demise babies that I’ve had to deliver
  • putting my cat to sleep after having complications of congestive heart failure
  • another attending mentor was hit by a car and died instantly

With that being said, this is another driving force as to why I try to do so many things, feel as many feels as possible, and go to as many different places as I can.

I suppose… another reason why I feverishly write on this blog and post daily is because I know that one day, the posts will stop (not by choice) and that my words will be my legacy (for better or for worse).


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41 responses to “danse macabre”

  1. Ajinkya Rane Avatar

    Life is too short to not do the things you love. Good on you for doing them!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yassss thank you!!

  2. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Cheer up you lovely super intelligent thing!!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol thanks, Nico!

  3. Info-Man Avatar

    Bless you 💜💜 , take care!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you ~~

  4. Prog2Goal Avatar

    That’s a lot of trauma. I can see how those life experiences would influence you. Keep on posting!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, friend!!

  5. utahan15 Avatar

    when the man who saved my life was killed by a drunk driver
    a highly skilled cardio surgeon
    and me a worthless pile of shit still alive
    why?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Life is like that sometimes

      1. utahan15 Avatar

        channeling your inner denny seraphine again. let s put on the instrumental mono and do the cha cha cha with the blinds open!

        1. justrojie Avatar

          🤣

          1. utahan15 Avatar

            so i must take care of the burden i lay on you.

          2. utahan15 Avatar

            harrisongs are next. the quiet beatle.

  6. myallaboutyou Avatar

    You have seen a lot of tragedy. Do you have any fleeting moments which excited you that you know will never happen again?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Ooh this is a good one! I’ll answer this in a separate post! Thank you!

      1. myallaboutyou Avatar

        Wonderful. 😉😉

  7. Hazel Avatar

    But I’d like to say, stay healthy, Rojie because we both love to write blogs daily, and I gave up my 266-day streak last Sunday of being unwell.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thanks Hazel! I hope you’re feeling better! I usually write my posts a few days before and have it scheduled to post since some days I get very busy.

  8. Jake Avatar

    When life gets me down I always return to this song: https://youtu.be/jHPOzQzk9Qo?si=5XQXQPoNyP2kCRTD

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😂

  9. M. Avatar

    That’s a lot of tragedy in your life, sounds like my past

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yeah I imagine as I get older it’ll be more prevalent

  10. Violet Lentz Avatar

    In your field I would think experiencing the fragility of life is a common occurrence..

    1. justrojie Avatar

      It is and most of us have ptsd especially after the pandemic but we keep going

  11. vic5566 Avatar

    damn dis made me feel things dat I dun rlly noe how to describe 😔🫂

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Frfr…

  12. ianmdudley Avatar

    Watching my grandparents in the end stage of their lives.

    Performing the Heimlich maneuver on my mother-in-law and Kiddo.

    Being the first to stop at a car vs motorcycle accident.

    A rogue firework shooting towards us, and the Missus and I instinctively throwing the (very young) Kiddos behind us to shield them.

    9/11.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      damn that’s a lot…

      1. ianmdudley Avatar

        They add up as you get older…

  13. ianmdudley Avatar

    And every f*cking time I’ve had to watch a pet die.

    Every. Single. Time.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      omg that’s the worst

      1. ianmdudley Avatar

        Yeah. It is.

  14. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Yes and you are making a great legacy for yourself. Keep it up. You are awesome; even though you have been through some hard stuff. You are still here, awesome!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Jesse!

  15. ibarynt Avatar

    I feel that too, one day my space will be silent. You know, I think about how no one here will get to know… we’re in different parts of the world. Now I’m feeling more sad 🤐

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Aw I find comfort that my words will live on

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Small comfort and saving graces

  16. April Avatar

    Sending you lots of love! & I never want to stop reading yours….posts..ever! Maybe after 89…we can start thinking…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Aw thank you, April!!

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