One decision

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Currently listening to: Try – P!nk

Where there is desire
There is gonna be a flame
Where there is a flame
Someone’s bound to get burned
But just because it burns
Doesn’t mean you’re gonna die
You’ve gotta get up and try, and try, and try
Gotta get up and try, and try, and try

What would your life be like if you didn’t…

We are all one decision away from another life.

I think about this quite a bit. I daydream about what my alternate life would/could have been.

Like what would my life been like if I married my ex fiancé? I think it would have been hell on earth. What if I stayed in any of those loveless situationships? All’s well, ends well?

I think about what if I stayed permanently in the different states that I lived in? Minnesota? Wisconsin? Illinois? Texas? Massachusetts? I know for a fact, my life wouldn’t be what it is now. I wouldn’t have crossed paths with the people I’ve met in California.

What if I never restarted my blog? I had a hiatus because it was no longer bringing me joy but after a while, I began to miss it and engaging with other bloggers and readers. Reading other’s blogs helped me heal and move on… so I can do what I need to do.

The “what ifs” are endless. I think though, everything happens for a reason. There’s a reason why I’m here. Why you’re here.


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24 responses to “One decision”

  1. Jake Pickard Avatar

    I was watching stuff on alternate realities last night and the quantum physics of the brain, that perhaps those decsions you made were made in another reality and your subconscious or unconscious self already knew the outcome, even if you didn’t fully understand at the time. I.e. what we call intuition.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      it’s quite possible!!

  2. utahan15 Avatar

    what if why
    the need to expound and decry
    i am invisible too
    sorta but not too much like you

  3. Info-Man Avatar

    Wow ! What a coincidence, I was singing the same song today 😂😂 it was the male version maybe 😆😆😆
    Btw i do think we are one decision away from another life , I often think about it btw , what ifs and all …….just like in parallel universes. Sometimes I do want to see all the possibilities just like Dr. Strange ,like what could have happen if i did this or that .

    1. justrojie Avatar

      or what if the other variants of us living in an alternate timeline in those different what ifs like in Loki?

  4. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Karate blogging, Cree poetry, I wanted to go public more, etc. then I saw you, read you, others, and it kicks ass!! You are soooooo exhilirating, attractive, and intelligent!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      cree poetry is cool! thank you, nico!

      1. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

        You are very welcome!

  5. ianmdudley Avatar

    Be careful you don’t get stuck on what ifs and end up losing sight of what is.

    We are where we are, and no amount of pining or reflection will change that.

    But that said, I really wish I lived in the timeline where I am the undefeated UFC champion and super-slick ladies’ man. Sure, maybe just a tad far-fetched, but a man can dream, can’t he?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      he sure can!! i think what if’s not too often only because the world keeps on going

      1. ianmdudley Avatar

        Lately, I don’t have time for what-ifs.

        More like WTFs…

        1. justrojie Avatar

          haha those words mumble out of my mouth at least a dozen times a day

  6. Edward Ortiz Avatar

    Pink is awesome. I’m with you, everything happens for a reason, and if we pay close attention, we can learn a lot from those experiences. Toxic relationships? Yes, it’s better to cut loose and stay as far away as possible from that kind of person.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      this is facts!

  7. Hazel Avatar

    I’m so happy you’re here. It’s a blessing you register again because I enjoyed your blogs!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      aw tysm, Hazel!

      1. Hazel Avatar

        I thank you, Rojie

  8. ibarynt Avatar

    There are too many what ifs, but those roads you didn’t take has led you where you are today.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      and for that, i am thankful!

  9. aparnachillycupcakes Avatar

    The what- ifs never end but I can only say… life means going on and I m glad you are going on!!!
    Though I have recently connected with you but it’s been a pleasure reading you and just stay awesome ♥️😇

    1. justrojie Avatar

      likewise!! i thoroughly enjoy your blog as well!

  10. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    I am here to write about being shot in the head and I hope no one ever gets shot in the head. I spill my pain with other bloggers. I also like hearing from other bloggers and reading their stories. Like yours, it is nice to read your blog. Thank you for being so open to all of us. You are awesome 👌.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thanks so much, Jesse! I enjoy reading yours as well!

  11. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Thank you very much 😊

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