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One decision

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Currently listening to: Try – P!nk

Where there is desire
There is gonna be a flame
Where there is a flame
Someone’s bound to get burned
But just because it burns
Doesn’t mean you’re gonna die
You’ve gotta get up and try, and try, and try
Gotta get up and try, and try, and try

What would your life be like if you didn’t…

We are all one decision away from another life.

I think about this quite a bit. I daydream about what my alternate life would/could have been.

Like what would my life been like if I married my ex fiancé? I think it would have been hell on earth. What if I stayed in any of those loveless situationships? All’s well, ends well?

I think about what if I stayed permanently in the different states that I lived in? Minnesota? Wisconsin? Illinois? Texas? Massachusetts? I know for a fact, my life wouldn’t be what it is now. I wouldn’t have crossed paths with the people I’ve met in California.

What if I never restarted my blog? I had a hiatus because it was no longer bringing me joy but after a while, I began to miss it and engaging with other bloggers and readers. Reading other’s blogs helped me heal and move on… so I can do what I need to do.

The “what ifs” are endless. I think though, everything happens for a reason. There’s a reason why I’m here. Why you’re here.

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10 responses to “One decision”

  1. Jake Pickard Avatar
    Jake Pickard

    I was watching stuff on alternate realities last night and the quantum physics of the brain, that perhaps those decsions you made were made in another reality and your subconscious or unconscious self already knew the outcome, even if you didn’t fully understand at the time. I.e. what we call intuition.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      it’s quite possible!!

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  2. utahan15 Avatar
    utahan15

    what if why
    the need to expound and decry
    i am invisible too
    sorta but not too much like you

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  3. Info-Man Avatar
    Info-Man

    Wow ! What a coincidence, I was singing the same song today 😂😂 it was the male version maybe 😆😆😆
    Btw i do think we are one decision away from another life , I often think about it btw , what ifs and all …….just like in parallel universes. Sometimes I do want to see all the possibilities just like Dr. Strange ,like what could have happen if i did this or that .

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      or what if the other variants of us living in an alternate timeline in those different what ifs like in Loki?

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  4. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar
    Nicholas K F Matte

    Karate blogging, Cree poetry, I wanted to go public more, etc. then I saw you, read you, others, and it kicks ass!! You are soooooo exhilirating, attractive, and intelligent!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      cree poetry is cool! thank you, nico!

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      1. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar
        Nicholas K F Matte

        You are very welcome!

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  5. ianmdudley Avatar
    ianmdudley

    Be careful you don’t get stuck on what ifs and end up losing sight of what is.

    We are where we are, and no amount of pining or reflection will change that.

    But that said, I really wish I lived in the timeline where I am the undefeated UFC champion and super-slick ladies’ man. Sure, maybe just a tad far-fetched, but a man can dream, can’t he?

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      he sure can!! i think what if’s not too often only because the world keeps on going

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