drama queen

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I am so paranoid about hair loss because I have anemia and that is one of the potential complications that I could have since my body has to prioritize vital organs over my hair.

Every day I:

  • take collagen pills with hyaluronic acid + vitamin c
  • drink protein shakes
  • ingest as much complete protein as possible, but there’s only so much foie gras I can eat before wanting to vomit
  • use red light therapy
  • take iron supplements w/vitamins (helps absorb the iron better)
  • I also have a filtered shower head for hard water
  • use sulfate-free shampoos and do scalp massages while in the shower
  • stopped wearing tight ponytails
  • been trying to sleep more
  • do meditation and deep breathing exercises when I feel stressed to prevent cortisol levels from spiking

I was talking to my colleagues and assistants about how I feel like my hair is thinning and talked about Minoxidil. One coworker said it was effective for her but when she stopped, he started shedding excessively again.

They looked at me like I was ridiculous and said that they don’t notice any changes and that my hair appears very thick and full. They said that I reminded them of when Kim K told her sister, Kourtney that she needed to go to the hospital because she noticed a bald spot on her head.

But to be fair, it’s not just me. My friends (millenial + gen z) have been telling me they’re noticing thinning and shedding as well. I wonder if we’re all living with way more environmental stress than we realize: microplastics, pollution, endocrine-disrupting chemicals, chronic sleep issues, nonstop stress, and foods that are ultra-processed and bioengineered. I know our bodies aren’t built for all that…


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31 responses to “drama queen”

  1. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Yes but you still have a good head of hair. All the pics you have shared on here, you can’t see that you are loosing your hair. Your hair looks great!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thanks, Jesse! I saw an acquaintance of mine a month ago and her hair was shedding a lot and she had several bald spots. I didn’t say anything since she’s already aware and very self conscious about. But it had me thinking of my own hair.

      1. Jesse Pallante Avatar

        Well hopefully you are not shedding too bad. It can also be due to the change of season.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          thank you, Jesse!!

  2. myallaboutyou Avatar

    Interesting post. Rojie it could be hormonal. I don’t worry much about it because what will be will be once you start entering our later years. It could also be genetic. You have some interesting information and things to consider. Sounds like your doing your research. I will check it out. Thank you.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hormonal is also a possibility but I think that’ll happen later. My mom has a lot of hair but my maternal gma didn’t have as much before she passed but she was much older. My dad had a full set of hair before passing but I didn’t know my paternal grandparents because they passed when I was little and we were living in the Midwest at the time

  3. ianmdudley Avatar

    The lifestyle you write about here doesn’t exactly sound like it’s conducive to low stress levels. Or enough sleep. Can you afford to quit one of your jobs?

    I only have one job, but it’s a major contributor to my stress levels…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      As of late, I’ve been sleeping about 9 hours a day now. I literally have to remove myself from my home office and just go to sleep. I could quit one of my jobs but then I’ll be more stressed 🀣

      1. ianmdudley Avatar

        Yeah. If I quit my job, I’d be freaking out about finances…

        Sometimes it feels like we’re trapped in our existence.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          The golden shackles 😭

          1. ianmdudley Avatar

            More like tarnished silver shackles…

  4. Violet Lentz Avatar

    I shed like crazy, but new hair is forever growing in too. I wonder if it is something in the environment? Or the poison in our food….

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That’s what I’m thinking. Sf is suing 10 companies for selling ultra processed foods. I think that’s the first step. Food isn’t real food anymore… or so it seems

  5. Info-Man Avatar

    I have short hairs(very short) but suddenly I found I have hair loss that was months ago btw , it idk why decreased ? That’s a good thing btw .

    1. justrojie Avatar

      ugh i notice mine gets worse when it’s that time of the month too

      1. Info-Man Avatar

        Lol today i got hair fall again πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  6. ibarynt Avatar

    I think I should just shave my head…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      sometimes i wonder if i should do that as well lol

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        πŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ Christmas gift 🀣

  7. April Avatar

    Sending hugs!! I know you take good care of yourself..❀️ don’t worry… they’ll grow

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you!!

  8. justrojie Avatar

    It’s full but I fear alopecia

  9. J1NX Avatar

    Omg.. I’m so sorry you have to go through all of that. I would never want anyone to experience something like that.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you!!

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    1. justrojie Avatar

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