gen xyz to boomers

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It’s not just my Gen Z friends (yep, just two for now), my Millennial squad (three of them), and even a couple of my Gen X friends (two) who are dating Boomers. They’re not platinum digging, they’re out there having a full on relationship.

They’re traveling together, going to concerts, trying new restaurants, and checking off bucket-list experiences together. They pay for their own stuff, my friends would never want people to think that they are financially abusing their boyfriends.

These men are willing to bend over backwards for my friends. I mean, they should, they’re pretty awesome if you ask me. Plus, they also seem like they are sincerely in love.

I didn’t realize at first that their bfs were Boomers. I seriously thought that they were Gen X dudes. I never asked about their ages because we already knew that they were older but we just didn’t know how much older. But does it even matter? I really enjoy seeing my friends so happy after they’ve had many failed relationships.

It’s not to say that they have rose-colored glasses on. For now, their partners are mobile, financially stable, and in relatively good health, but what happens as they get older? They do have concerns about that and when I ask them how they would handle it when the time comes, they have all told me that they are committed to staying with them and becoming their caretaker.

How much older are you willing to date?


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25 responses to “gen xyz to boomers”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    I think I’ll agree with them. I like mature men. Older than me as long as he’s healthy, but not a senior.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Agreed!

  2. Hazel Avatar

    What about you, Rojie?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Depends what he looks like 😆

      1. Hazel Avatar

        It needs to be looking good🤭🤩

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Hehehehe

  3. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    I think the heart wants what it wants and if that is an older guy be it. As long as they are both mature enough then there is no problem with it. I would date someone older, younger. It is more about the chemistry between us. I guess that is it. If we click.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Totally agree

  4. M. Avatar

    Prior to my wife who is a millenial (12 years younger), I dated a boomer who was 20 years older. I was always attracted to older women. I will say though 10-15 is ok, anything older is a challenge. When I dated Kas she was 56 & I was 36. All she ever wanted to do were less than active activities. I had oomph in my step at 36 and that lack of oomph kinda squashed things, where as when I met Jess at 40 and she was 28, her youth added to the start of my slow down. We share a bit more too ya know culturally at least 😁

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That’s so cool!! Idk I’d like someone who is active cause I like doing all sorts of stuff lol

  5. Violet Lentz Avatar

    Maybe I was dating for all the wrong reasons when I was out there- but I never went for an older guy. Since I hit 40 I have found men my own age unattractive- but I chose to refrain from dating instead of going for a younger man.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      My friend said that she can do bad on her own so she remains single 😆

  6. ibarynt Avatar

    Let me go back to a few years to be able to answer this honestly … or I may be the boomer here… hehehe

  7. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    I like to boom boom 💥 lol!!

    1. justrojie Avatar
  8. ianmdudley Avatar

    It’s not just care in old age. It’s what happens after death.

    I’m selfish. I want the Missus to die after me so I’m not alone at the end. But that said, she’s only a couple years younger, and it’s a crap shoot who’ll go first.

    I can’t help thinking those boomers are being selfish too, tho I suppose if the women are young enough, they’ll find someone else after…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      When I go I hope to go in my sleep and traumatize whoever lies next to me and wakes up 😆

      1. ianmdudley Avatar

        That’s cold. As cold as your corpse will be when they wake up…

        1. justrojie Avatar

          better him than me!

  9. Darryl B Avatar

    May-December romances are sometimes beautiful relationships… not just friends, partners, lovers… but a mentor/mentee element that can be transformative 😎❤️

    1. justrojie Avatar

      This is very true!

  10. April Avatar

    Older men are quite hot. If in right frame of mind can definitely be what we deserve really. The same age guys behave to immature to tolerate to be together enough and don’t have end in sight

    1. justrojie Avatar

      exactly!! bring on the zaddy’s lol

  11. Info-Man Avatar

    lol tbh I can only upto 1 year I think , but I won’t date the man who is literally one day younger for sure 😂

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lolol idk sometimes dudes my age are meh… i wanna see what else there is out there in this universe

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