off and on

Currently listening to: That’s The Way It Is – Céline Dion

When you want it the most there’s no easy way out
When you’re ready to go and your heart’s left in doubt
Don’t give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that’s the way it is

Have you ever started liking someone who you previously disliked?

Prompt snagged from: TCMC

 

Not really. I usually don’t let it get that far. The moment I feel like I’m not going to vibe with someone, I naturally keep my distance. It’s not out of spite, I just don’t want to invest my time and energy into something that’s not going to lead anywhere.

If anything, I’ve had the opposite happen more often: I start off liking someone, only to eventually realize I don’t like them much at all. Most people are on their best behavior when I first meet them, especially when it comes to dating. Everyone’s charming, agreeable, and polished. And in those early stages, everything can feel exciting, lovestruck, and all brand new. But then the honeymoon phase ends and the rose-colored glasses are removed. People get comfortable. Cracks start to show. And that’s when I really meet the person beneath the surface. Sometimes it’s a pleasant surprise. Other times… it’s not.  


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13 responses to “off and on”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    Spending more time with a person reveals the true behaviour. This is so relatable, Rojie

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Facts!

      1. Ularamu Avatar

        How far

        1. justrojie Avatar

          How far… ?

  2. Violet Lentz Avatar

    I am like you- I haven’t the time or the patience.

  3. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Ya, it’s interesting getting to know people, lots of different situations and histories I find, me.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Absolutely!

  4. ibarynt Avatar

    I think the question should be the other way round 😄

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yeah once I get a not good vibe of someone, I avoid them 😂

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Makes sense too.

  5. Info-Man Avatar

    There was only once that the person i disliked ,i ended up liking him and that person was once my greatest enemy 😂😂 , it used to be nice , we hated each other a lot ,roasted each other a lot 😂.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Lolol so like frenemies?

      1. Info-Man Avatar

        Lol yeah maybe we can call that 😂😂 😅.

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