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casper

Currently listening to: This Is What You Came For – Calvin Harris and Rihanna

Baby, this is what you came forLightning strikes every time she movesAnd everybody’s watchin’ herBut she’s lookin’ at you, ooh, ooh

Have you ever ghosted someone?

Prompt snagged from: TCMC

I’ve ghosted every single person I’ve ever been set up on a date with. A couple of my friends told me that it was a bitch ass move but I didn’t do it out of malice or disrespect — it’s just that once I know there’s no real connection, no spark, no common ground… I’m done.

I don’t see the point in dragging out conversations that already feel like dead weight. I don’t owe anyone a forced friendship just because we happened to share an awkward drink or a polite dinner.

No animosity, no hard feelings.

Side note: Forever XXI is going out of business and everything is on sale 80-90% off, the fixtures were 50% off. Everything. Must. Go.

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12 responses to “casper”

  1. Hazel Avatar
    Hazel

    It’s not a rush, Rojie. Good mindset.

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  2. ibarynt Avatar
    ibarynt

    Oooh, they couldn’t recover. They had opened a couple stores here but obviously had to shut them down.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Yikes!

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  3. Violet Lentz Avatar
    Violet Lentz

    I think you are doing the exact right thing. If it’s not happening why prolong the discomfort?

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Yass!! There’s just no need for further dialogue imho

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  4. CBD Roll On Avatar
    CBD Roll On

    Great⭐

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  5. April Avatar
    April

    Ouch! Those guys….

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      😂

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  6. Maddie Cochere Avatar
    Maddie Cochere

    As I’ve only ever been set up on a date once – and then I married him – I haven’t had an opportunity to ghost anyone. But I think this is a fine idea, and your thoughts are quite rational. I do have a girlfriend who is a pro at ghosting and blocking, so I do see this art firsthand. 🙂

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      I gotta write about another date. I feel like more often than not the therapist instead of a date… it’s been interesting so far…

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      1. Maddie Cochere Avatar
        Maddie Cochere

        Love your dates!! Start sending a bill after for the therapy. 😂

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          😂 good idea!

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