prom

Currently listening to: bad guy – Billie Eilish

I’m the bad guy
I like it when you take control
Even if you know that you don’t
Own me,
I’ll let you play the role

I’ll be your animal

Is prom worth it?

Prompt snagged from: The NY Times 

For me? Yeah. It was absolutely worth it. Prom and homecoming are both wildly overrated and expensive. And yet… I went to both sophomore year. And not gonna lie, I had the time of my life—even though it almost sparked WW3 in my house.

My mom was dead set against me going to prom. But I begged my dad to intervene, and after what felt like endless arguing, he finally said yes—with two conditions:

  1. I had to be home by midnight.
  2. My parents weren’t going to buy me a dress.

That win came at a cost. My mom didn’t speak to me for a month because my dad overrode her. Petty? Absolutely. But I was still going to prom. I didn’t give a damn.

I borrowed a dress from my cousin, did my own hair and makeup (and let me tell you—if I’m bad at makeup now, you can only imagine what I looked like then. I didn’t have a boutonniere for my date, which I still feel a little guilty about because he looked so good in a suit.

My mom refused to come out of her room to greet Christian when he arrived. Like I said—petty with a capital P.

But none of that mattered when Christian pulled up in his dad’s car. This was the first time I got to go anywhere with him with my parents’ knowledge. Before that, it was all sneaking out in the middle of the night or sneaking him in. It was a whole thing.

We got to prom, danced for about an hour, and then left to go make out at the beach like the messy, hormonal teenagers we were. It was one unforgettable night.

No pictures like the other kids, because my parents disapproved. But I don’t need them. I’ve got the memories burned into my long-term memory like a highlight reel I still revisit from time to time.

So, was prom worth it?

Absolutely.


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24 responses to “prom”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    What a romantic adventure you have with Christian, rojie. It’s good to explore a little intimacy sometimes. I haven’t tried prom.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      It was def a good time

  2. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    I am glad you went to your prom. You stuck to your guns about it. Good for you.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Jesse !!

  3. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Ya!! I had a good time myself but for the wrong afterpromparty, one rocked lol😄

  4. Violet Lentz Avatar

    I didn’t go to any of that- but then I went to three high schools in two years, so that had a lot to do with it.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Oh def I would say so!

  5. Maddie Cochere Avatar

    Fabulous story! I’m glad you made it happen.

    Sneaking out and sneaking in … you’re a hoot!! 🙂

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Oh man there was a lot of debauchery to be had

  6. حروف Avatar

    لم تكن تستحق كل العناء

    1. justrojie Avatar

      aww but you did go?

  7. Samantha Josephine (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧ Avatar

    I went to jr prom but no sr. I went stag… bc I don’t no preteen boy drooling over my fab 80’s getup! And me and my bestie went stag together. It was fun. I could’ve gone to sr prom but I sadly dropped out of school in grade 11. (Ours goes to 12)

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Oooh I only went when I was a sophomore cause that’s the only person I wanted to go with

  8. Benefits of CBD Avatar

    great article

  9. M. Avatar

    I didn’t date in HS i was shy dorky kid, i asked one girl who was in an on again/off again with a friend…alas i didn’t go

    1. justrojie Avatar

      aw that’s unfortunate…i know a lot of pple who did go stag but it also depends on what your comfort level is too.

  10. Cindy Garcia Avatar

    loved the article, would you be kind to just support my posts by like or comment please? thanks btw 😍😍😍

  11. ibarynt Avatar

    Will there be a prom story in future? 😅

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol I wish… I didn’t even go to my hs reunion

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Those reunions are just to find out who’s done well or not 🤐

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Oh snap I just wanted to see what people looked like 😆

          1. ibarynt Avatar

            Perspectives 🤣

  12. pk world 🌎 Avatar

    Excellent story 💯 Best regards 🏵️🌹 Blessings 🌎🇪🇦

    1. justrojie Avatar

      muchas gracias, mi amigo!!

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