the sweet spot

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What does “enough” mean to you?

I don’t want to live in a house full of stuff. I like the minimalism life. Maybe it’s because I’ve moved so many times that it makes things a lot simpler if I don’t have too much. I’ve been told that my place resembles a museum and I rather like it like that for me. It helps brings clarity for me and makes it easier for me to feel at peace.

For some odd reason though, I like my female friends’ homes to feel like they’re “lived in”. I like the homey aesthetics, there’s something weirdly comforting about it all… but interestingly enough, I don’t like that vibe in my male friends’ cribs. Strange. I know.

It also means knowing when to set boundaries, especially when enough is enough. When people become energy vampires and I feel the life being sucked out of me… I’ll either avoid them moving forward or set hard boundaries to save myself.


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2 responses to “the sweet spot”

  1. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    I don’t really get that way……..actually, yes, there are some people I’ve blocked, feels good after hey! Like a win!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      it’s almost like overdosing on a human in a weird sorta way lol

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