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this is not the vibe

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This is rather embarrassing. Le sigh.

I am putting myself on a strict diet this month. I can feel my pants getting tight, my thighs and ass are getting bigger than ever, and it’s not a good look. I’m posting this here so I hold myself accountable and I’m hoping that this will help.

I wish someone would slap the cheese out of my hand sometimes. Cheese is my weakness…

I also need a haircut, my mane is getting out of control. My hair is naturally wavy so it gets all wild looking. I wish I had straight hair instead but I gotta work with what I’ve got.

And yes, I have flat feet. Like zero arch whatsoever.

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65 responses to “this is not the vibe”

  1. Ajinkya Rane Avatar
    Ajinkya Rane

    You got this Rojie! You have my support! Go for it!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Thank you, Ajinkya!!

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      1. Ajinkya Rane Avatar
        Ajinkya Rane

        🫶

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  2. Jake Avatar
    Jake

    You look hot don’t be so hard on yourself.

    As far as hair goes in my 20’s it went from straight thick long flowing locks to thick crazy unmanageable mess after i cut my dreadlocks off

    Apparently my hair has never forgiven me for the dreadlocks.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Wait you had dreadlocks? I think we need to see pics

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      1. Jake Avatar
        Jake

        I had a liberty spike Mohawk too.

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          That’s so cool

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          1. Jake Avatar
            Jake

            That is have a picture of

          2. justrojie Avatar
            justrojie

            Hope ya find it

      2. Jake Avatar
        Jake

        Ill see if I can find if I even have one. This was before phones had cameras.

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  3. Violet Lentz Avatar
    Violet Lentz

    You look adorable. Believe me 25 years from now you would kill to look like this again!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Oh snap then I better get to it

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  4. CJ Antichow Avatar
    CJ Antichow

    Rojie you look amazing!!!
    But i know full well what others see versus what we see are 2 different things and in the end it’s ourselves we need to keep happy. I need to get back on track with eating well and exercising too 💪🏽

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Yes!! You understand me 🥹

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  5. utahan15 Avatar
    utahan15

    from the mystery tour sir paul sings for you your mother should know. you look great. women have unrealistic expectations for their bodies. mine is a living thing. just ask the ezcema!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      In Korea, I’m actually a size large. People there are like so beautiful

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      1. utahan15 Avatar
        utahan15

        i will accept that as axomatic as my only korean exposure was either by watching mash or listening to kim s ex citizen s chirp like wild hens at five am!!!!!!!

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          😆 if you see any kpop music videos you’ll see

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          1. utahan15 Avatar
            utahan15

            ummmmmmm dont hold your breath

  6. utahan15 Avatar
    utahan15

    DR ROJIE S BEING SILLY.

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  7. Prog2Goal Avatar
    Prog2Goal

    You look quite thin to me. 👍

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Ahh Korean standards are nearly impossible for me

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      1. Jake Avatar
        Jake

        Its about your standards Rojie. What you are comfortable with, your mother and Korea’s opinions don’t matter.

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  8. M. Avatar
    M.

    🙄 No comment..i.mean really what’s wrong with you ? That almost comes across as developing an eating disorder.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      I actually have body dysmorphia but it’s common amongst Koreans. Also doesn’t help that my mom likes to give me unsolicited comments about my looks

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      1. M. Avatar
        M.

        Oh boy…I’m sorry. That sucks especially with your Mom not helping.

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          I think I’m used to it now considering that she’s been doing this since I was a kid 😆

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  9. Info-Man Avatar
    Info-Man

    Lol i have flat feets too 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Omg I see my friends with high arches and I get jelly

      Reply
  10. ianmdudley Avatar
    ianmdudley

    Um… I don’t see a person with a weight problem in that picture.

    Sure, maybe a hair problem ( 😉 ), but honestly, that’s it.

    Seriously.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Thanks, Ian. Idk it’s hard for me to see that. Man my hair is super unruly though.

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      1. ianmdudley Avatar
        ianmdudley

        You work in the field, so you know what you should do. If you’re really worried you’re overweight, see a doctor and get an unbiased opinion.

        But I don’t see it.

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          lol my friends are on ozempic and they’re rail thin

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          1. ianmdudley Avatar
            ianmdudley

            Years ago, I dated someone who, in hindsight, clearly had some form of body dysmorphic disorder. Uncomfortably thin and convinced she was overweight.

            I hated to see it.

            I’m not saying that’s what’s going on here, but you have made comments about your mom saying you needed to lose weight when you were younger, that picture does NOT show someone who needs to lose weight, and you live in LA where EVERYBODY is on Ozempic / fixated on appearance. So it’s easy to imagine this is about something other than your physical body.

            But I’m also not a doctor, and this really isn’t my lane, so I’ve said my piece, and I’ll leave it here.

            Except to add, get to a salon, girl! 😉

          2. justrojie Avatar
            justrojie

            lol i might get to the salon next month after the concert madness is over

      2. ianmdudley Avatar
        ianmdudley

        But yeah, your hair is pretty insane in that picture…

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          it’s like a big bush of hair

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  11. SiriusSea Avatar
    SiriusSea

    Flat feet here too (lol) but you look great, seriously! I applaud your bravery because I was doing the same thing yesterday but would never post and I actually DO need more exercise and less carbs + less sugar + a haircut! I can’t eat cheese anymore, but God help the poor soul who slaps food out of my hands (haha)! Hope you have a gorgeous day and wave those negative vibes out of your beautiful mind!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Thank you so much!! Yass I started getting back to running in the early morning before work today 😆 that too was not the vibe but I don’t have many options either

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  12. Hazel Avatar
    Hazel

    Well, I giggled again with this post. I like your hair.🤭 Not so far from mine😁 we’ve got to work what we’ve got truly 🤩 It’s a lovely, authentic photo, nevertheless.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      lol my hair looks pretty wild when i wake up too. thank you, Hazel!

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      1. Hazel Avatar
        Hazel

        And that’s me, too, especially if I have headache 😁🤭 my pleasure, rojie

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  13. Greg Taniguchi Avatar
    Greg Taniguchi

    I think you just need to get the Shining rug pattern to distract yourself.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      lol maybe if it was in a different color

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      1. Greg Taniguchi Avatar
        Greg Taniguchi

        Damn it, I was off with switching up the vibe 😂😂😂

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  14. vic5566 Avatar
    vic5566

    hehe 🤭 U still look good though! Just gotta get urself to feel the same way 🙏

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      lol thanks, vic

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  15. Jesse Pallante Avatar
    Jesse Pallante

    You look very beautiful. There is nothing wrong with the way you look. You dont need to loose weight. I don’t think so.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      aw thank you, Jesse! i think i need to eat more salads!

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      1. Jesse Pallante Avatar
        Jesse Pallante

        Sure!😆 🤣 nooo! You look fabulous 👌!

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  16. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar
    Nicholas K F Matte

    Rojie you are SOOOO awesome!!! I could compliment you all day, all night!!!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      thanks, Nico!!

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  17. ibarynt Avatar
    ibarynt

    Sorry but I can’t see the weight.
    You’re doing great exercising!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      says the skinny lady~!!!

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      1. ibarynt Avatar
        ibarynt

        🤫… selective looking 😁

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          LOL

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  18. papadosshortstories Avatar
    papadosshortstories

    You are a Gemini, if I’m not wrong. Jupiter is transiting through Gemini, your 1st house, which has the effect of putting on some weight. The same happened to me.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      oh damn does it say when it’ll be lifted??

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      1. papadosshortstories Avatar
        papadosshortstories

        Jupiter is going to enter Cancer in June, so it’s the perfect time to start a diet program.😉

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          thank goodness!

          Reply
  19. Rob McShane Avatar
    Rob McShane

    Yet to meet a lady who is comfortable as she is… you look great Rojie, hair and all!
    As was said above… in 20 years you will really appreciate where you are now!😀😀
    Besides, it’s who you are that’s important not what you look like… and both are gorgeous anyway 🙏 thanks for being and sharing you 🙏🌟🥳

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      aw thanks so much, Rob

      Reply
  20. Lynette d'Arty-Cross Avatar
    Lynette d’Arty-Cross

    Try to be good to yourself. 😊 You look great.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      thanks so much, Lynette

      Reply
  21. Yankee Doodle Avatar
    Yankee Doodle

    Life is meant to be enjoyed. Go easy on yourself. Someone else already said it, but all of this worrying is something that won’t matter at all in a few short years. Indulge yourself.

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