fatal attraction

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Do you think attraction is more about energy or appearance?

Prompt created by yours truly. 
Feel free to use any prompts that I post and/or tag me.
I’d love to read your responses.

Before, it used to be 70% looks and 30% vibes but now it’s been reversed.

I have a certain type that I’m attracted to, don’t get me wrong. Physically, I prefer men who are

  • tall
  • easy on the eyes
  • clean cut
  • muscular
  • fashionable

But energy does matter. Kinetic energy (1/2) mv^2 and potential energy (mgh). I’m finally using my AP physics knowledge to use. But when it comes to vibes:

  • how someone treats others
  • their aura
  • responsible
  • book smart
  • whether I feel safe around the person
  • have emotional intelligence
  • authenticity

I could be with someone who is hella handsome but if his attitude is janky, he’s going to appear less attractive to me. But if I’m with someone who is mid looking but there’s something about his personality that makes me drawn to him, he’s going to appear more attractive to me.


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62 responses to “fatal attraction”

  1. Ajinkya Rane Avatar

    I swear if I was 10 years older and in Cali.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😂

  2. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Is a little bit of expertly conceived humor on the menu for Roro too?? I think so hey?😁

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol a bit

  3. aparnachillycupcakes Avatar

    So so so true… The person has to have that vibe that he creates with his / her aura – words and presence!
    I think this song should play after meeting them – can’t get you out of my head… 🫣☺️

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yasss I’m really about my visceral reaction to a person and their aura these days

  4. Hazel Avatar

    Oh yeah. Agree. But I start to lose hope to find that man or to wait that. 🤩 I feel like singlehood is waving at me.🤭

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 being by myself isn’t bad either cause I can do whatever the hell I wanna do. Like sleep all day 😆

      1. Hazel Avatar

        Yeah, no disturbance 😁

  5. April Avatar

    Hunt him on! Vibes takes the higher seat…so true!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      As soon as the guy gives me the ick, I’m out 😂

  6. Prog2Goal Avatar

    I agree. I’m initially attracted to beauty, but character and intelligence is more important.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Frfr!

  7. Priti Avatar

    Good personality is always attractive

    1. justrojie Avatar

      it really is!

      1. Priti Avatar

        🙏

  8. Violet Lentz Avatar

    I am attracted to good looks and bad attitudes- which is exactly why I remain single! hehehehe

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Lolol there’s something about the bad boys… le sigh

  9. Jake Avatar

    For me a twisted sense of humor and the ability to laugh at one’s self is huge.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I like em a little pervy too 😂

      1. Jake Avatar

        Just a little?

        1. justrojie Avatar

          😆 kk maybe a lot

          1. Jake Avatar

            Filthy minds and mouths my favorite.

          2. justrojie Avatar

            lol

      2. Nemo Avatar

        At least you can admit it. 🙂

        1. justrojie Avatar

          hehe indeed

          1. Nemo Avatar

            I’ve always liked big women with bigger appetites. Well read, well fed. Irreverent sense of humour, an appreciation for good morals, a bit lazy, spiritual.

          2. justrojie Avatar

            interesting!! i don’t think i’ve come across a dude who was into big women.

          3. Nemo Avatar

            We’re out there. Lurking, apparently. It’s not the world’s most popular turn-on. Given how shrink obsessed the media culture is. I weigh 150-60, in good shape, strong for my size, etc, and the algorythm is trying to sell me on the GLPs. Every commercial break on every podcast.

            Forever.

          4. justrojie Avatar

            it seems like everyone and their momma are on GLP1s, even though they’re already thin

          5. Nemo Avatar

            It’s so tiresome. I won’t get into it too deep, but I’ll leave it at – there are worse things than fat. And, we forget, the cure is often worse than the disease. So.

            Eat cake.

          6. justrojie Avatar

            cure is probably everything in moderation including exercise and sleep lol

          7. Nemo Avatar

            May be. 🙂

          8. justrojie Avatar

            :>

          9. Nemo Avatar

            🍔

          10. justrojie Avatar

            i was just thinking about a smash burger or in-n-out flying dutchman style

          11. Nemo Avatar

            Do it. Don’t let your dreams be dreams.

          12. justrojie Avatar

            lol i’m on a diet rn

          13. Nemo Avatar

            Sad.

          14. justrojie Avatar

            ikr? sad indeed.

          15. Nemo Avatar

            Go on the Cheat Day Diet and eat whatever you want.

          16. justrojie Avatar

            i’m also gluten free sobs lol hmm if i want a cheat day i wanna eat real bread made from italy, not this crap fake bread they have here.

          17. Nemo Avatar

            Fair play. Kemet flour? Something like that. Wife uses it. Good for gluten aversion. It’s like einkorn.

          18. justrojie Avatar

            oh intresting… thanks for the tip! i’ve been using almond flour

          19. Nemo Avatar

            Fair. Been there. You should be able to eat as much of that sort of thing as you want.

          20. justrojie Avatar

            I wish I could!

          21. Nemo Avatar

            Good luck! May your diets be ended and your bellies full.

          22. justrojie Avatar

            Hehehe thank you

          23. Nemo Avatar

            🍺🍕

  10. ibarynt Avatar

    Doesn’t matter how they look until they open their mouth 😁

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Also janky teeth 🦷

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Ahhh 🤣😂

  11. Joe Avatar

    In my field, I teach a lot of young people who are at the height of their physical beauty but who are frequently lazy dingalings. So I’m definitely 70% energy/30% looks nowadays–that’s probably an artifact of my age.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 I just can’t with handsome men but there’s nothing upstairs

  12. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    It’s good to know your type. Thank you for sharing awesome 👌!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Jesse!

  13. ianmdudley Avatar

    It seems to me that attraction (and relationships) start (or don’t) with appearance, but if it’s to survive, must migrate past that. Maybe to energy, maybe to something else non-superficial.

    Attraction is the spark that starts the fire, while energy keeps it burning.

    But if the family pet rabbit ends up in your porch in a pot, boiled, well then you failed to pay attention to some serious red flags. Or the boiler was SUPER hot – either way, shame on you. And change your locks.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      i’ve learned my lesson from extremely good looking men and nothing good came outta it!

      1. ianmdudley Avatar

        Careful. The ug-oos can teach you painful lessons too.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          and that is even worse if they’re fugly!

  14. Info-Man Avatar

    Attraction is force , force is ma so it’s about the person . About his personality.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      True true!!

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