care bear

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Currently listening to: Without Me – Halsey

I said I’d catch you if you fall (fall)
And if they laugh, then fuck ’em all (all)
And then I got you off your knees
Put you right back on your feet
Just so you could take advantage of me

How do you show care without words?

I think there are plenty of ways:

  • a long hug
  • active listening
  • creating a safe space
  • cooking their fav meal
  • making a cup of coffee
  • holding hands
  • purchasing a small gift
  • having meaningful talks and spend time together
  • staying consistent
  • celebrating the little things, cause a win is a win
  • curating a playlist
  • respecting their boundaries

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22 responses to “care bear”

  1. aparnachillycupcakes Avatar

    I agree Rojie… specially where we respect their boundaries !

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, Aparna!

  2. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    All these are good caring ways to show care. My favorite is a long hug, of course with respect.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, Jesse!

  3. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    This is VERY nice indeed, yes

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, Nico!

  4. utahan15 Avatar

    you cannot do any of those things online\

    1. justrojie Avatar

      i suppose so

      1. utahan15 Avatar

        there is no supposition what so ever. just white on line non sense. fine if you re a m used.

    2. ianmdudley Avatar

      Not true. A few of those items can be done online.

      Sure, they’re better in person. But that doesn’t make them absent or impossible here.

      IRL is always preferable (unless one or both parties involved have terrible personal hygiene), but sometimes that’s not an option.

      For example, I’m allowed internet access but no personal visits in the psych ward…

  5. Info-Man Avatar

    Long hugs 😆😆

    1. justrojie Avatar

      hehehe

  6. Nakedandy Avatar

    I know it’s surprising but sometimes I don’t want certain people touching me

    1. justrojie Avatar

      i enjoy it but only when i’m attracted to the person

  7. Darryl B Avatar

    Great list, my friend. All excellent ways of showing support and friendship 😎

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thanks so much, Darryl!

  8. Hazel Avatar

    I love having meaningful talks and spending time with them. I do my best to do it, especially if my sisters and parents are at home and not working.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      aww i bet you guys have great times

      1. Hazel Avatar

        Whenever we spend quality time, it was fun. Hugs, Rojie

        1. justrojie Avatar

          i’m so glad!

  9. ibarynt Avatar

    Never thought about curating a playlist. That is thoughtful.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      it sure is!

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