a korean-american weekend part III

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Currently listening to: DNA – BTS

내 혈관 속 DNA가 말해줘
(The DNA in my blood vessels tell me)
내가 찾아 헤매던 너라는 걸
(That you were the one I was looking for)

Dodgers

The last time I was at a Dodgers game was about ten years ago and it’s only because my friends dragged me to go with them because they had some sorta Hello Kitty freebie that day. I’m a Twins fan at heart (Minnesota pride), so the Dodgers have never really been my team. The only Dodgers players that I could name off the top of my head are : Shohei Ohtani, Mookie Betts, Freddie Freeman, and of course the two Koreans – Hyeseong Kim and Tommy Edman (he is half Korean).

V (Kim Taehyung from BTS) was throwing the ceremonial first pitch, and as ARMY (BTS fandom), there’s no way we were missing it, especially since it was local for us. There were five of us in our group attending, and even though going to a weekday game after work wasn’t exactly ideal, we agreed that it was worth the loss of sleep. Thankfully, we were quick to grab tickets the second the news dropped. By the very next day, prices had skyrocketed to five times more and the game sold out. I also made sure to get preferred parking because we didn’t want to waste time and deal with the annoying stadium traffic.

Of course I had to bring my Labubu in her cute Ohtani Dodgers fit. Priorities.

Also, this was the Mookie Betts replica World Series ring (freebie that they were giving away to the first 40,000 fans) I was talking about in my previous post, annoyance, on what I should do with it and the drama between Isabella and Suzanne. Ugh. I still haven’t made a decision…

Side note, the ring is absurdly huge.

Celebrities like Jeremy Allen White and Jason Bateman were spotted in the crowd. I’ll admit, I wouldn’t have recognized them if their names hadn’t popped up on the DodgerVision screens.

It was a gorgeous day for a baseball game, and the Dodgers ended up beating the Reds 6-3. I forgot how fun it was to be at a ballgame in person. By the 7th inning, the lead felt safe enough that we decided to dip out early, we wanted to get outta there before hitting the post-game traffic.

V (Taehyung) from BTS

But the real highlight? V. Every time his face came up on the screen, the stadium erupted. I managed to capture a few vids of his moments from the DodgerVision and made a compilation reel.

We were able to get a better view by going down below to get snaps of V (he’s the one wearing a jersey and in jeans) practicing before his pitch. My friends were beyond excited because he is their bias, mine is Jungkook and Suga is my bias wrecker.

My friends were scheming like it was Mission Impossible, trying to figure out how to “accidentally bump into him” if he went to the restroom or how they could casually buy him food. At one point, a couple of them were told by security to back up because they were inching their way toward a restricted area, while me and Maria hung back. I tried to tell the others that they were doing too much but reasoning with people when their bias is so close is like trying to talk to a brick wall.

I like to admire Kpop idols from afar, and not be that 사생팬 (sasaeng fan—the obsessive stans who cross the line for attention). I’ve met a few celebrities over the years through friends, parties, screenings, and accidentally, but when it happens, I try to be chill about it and not fangirl too hardcore or be super creepy. They ought to be like free range chicken and go where they want to go without being bothered.

I had to learn that lesson the hard way. Back when my former blog was at its peak, I had well over 10,000 regular readers, mostly Asian, and I thought the more I shared, the more “real” I was being. I’d post specifics—where I worked, what kinda work I was doing, what school I was at, venues that I was going to, even what I was wearing to the event beforehand. It felt harmless at the time, but it came back to bite me in the ass. HARD. Rookie fucking mistake. People would show up at the exact places I wrote about beforehand, acting like we were besties or worse, like we were dating. Yes, a few of them showed up to my job in person or called my work asking to speak to me. And when I tried to set boundaries, some of them got angry. A few even escalated to threats when I blocked them from commenting but that didn’t stop them from e-mailing me. Le sigh. This was not the vibe.

It was an epic disaster and I was shooketh. But it also taught me to guard my privacy better and not confuse “being open” with “giving away too much”. Now, I post about things after it has occurred and not before or during (unless I’m at a concert with 50,000+ others) and I’m more obscure about other things. Anyway, I digress, these 사생팬 moments probably deserve their own blog post some day.

My friends and I ended up with freebies from other ARMY (I didn’t have enough time to make any to give away this time). Most of it was V related but there were a couple of Jungkook and Jin freebies too. Jin has the same U of M sweatshirt that I have. LOL.

PIGYA

Afterward, we were all famished. We thought of eating at the stadium but figured it would be cheaper to go to Pigya instead. It’s also one of Jungkook’s fav places to eat in K-town. It seemed like a lot of others who were at the game decided to go here too, so we were in good company.

This meal set serves 2-3 people, we had five but this was more than enough food for us all. It cost $89 ($17.80 before taxes and tip per person) but it included: pork belly, pork cheek, boneless beef short rib, wagyu beef belly, steamed egg, wagyu carpaccio, kimchi fried rice, and hangover ramen. We were all laughing, eating, and dropping pics and vids in each other’s AirDrop.

When I got home around midnight, I had to finish up on my consulting gig and check my second job’s e-mails. The rest would have to wait till Tuesday because by the time I fell asleep, it was well after 0200 and I had to wake up in a couple of hours to go to work.


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24 responses to “a korean-american weekend part III”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    Because you look like celebrity, Rojie, that’s why they followed you wherever you are.🤩 I hope I’m not too open here. Besides, remote place is not easy to go and Hazel is just ordinary 🤭

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That’s super kind of you to say 😆 but I am nowhere looking like a celebrity. People in California are extremely pretty. Do you ever wonder if there are people in your village that read your posts? If so, how does it make you feel? Just wondering since you live in a rural area.

  2. Info-Man Avatar

    Wow seeing the most handsome man live is such a flex , TBH i sometimes feel that some armies forget the boundaries , they should know to give idols some privacy , I mean it is literally life threatening to idols.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      It really is wild to me how far army will go. Tbh I was a little irked by my two friends but once we got out of the stadium they were ok 😆 v def got them in a chokehold

      1. Info-Man Avatar

        That’s the power of V 😁💪

        1. justrojie Avatar

          it sure is!!

  3. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    The dodgers are awesome. I am glad you had a chance to enjoy the game. Now I see why you guide your privacy as you do. It is better not to share details about your life. If they show up at your work, that’s creepy wow. By the way, good picture of the food you are. It is awesome.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yeah it’s super creepy!!! I think for females it’s p important to be a bit more private. I had a great time at the game! Thanks so much, Jesse!

  4. Zenith Avatar

    im not a v stan, but I love his vocals especially his song rainy days. why did he get all buff I loved tiny v b4 ;-;

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Lolol he looked like he lost some of the muscle recently but it’s hard to tell in the pics

      1. Zenith Avatar

        Bro turned buff after military

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Jk is hella swoll rn

  5. safia begum Avatar

    Listening to BTS’s DNA while reading this makes the experience even more vibrant—music and words blending into a perfect weekend vibe!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Safia!! DNA is one of my fav bts songs

  6. Violet Lentz Avatar

    Thanks for taking me along!

  7. Prog2Goal Avatar

    It’s been a minute since I’ve been to a pro ball game. But I am with you – I like to check out early to avoid the traffic.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hell yeah! Even though they wanted to stay 😂

  8. ibarynt Avatar

    I like the free range chicken 🤣 and that food makes me drool 🤤

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hehe 🐓! The food was amazing!!

  9. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Cool baseball game!! I Really like all this K-stuff coming out, it seems to fill a gap quite perfectly I feel in western society that was lacking. Japanese stuff abounds of course, from my standing, and so I am REALLY enjoying Korean culture no joke. Mookie Betts RULES!!!!! Congrats on the ring!! I would put it in sight at home kinda thing, that’s what I would do, thennnn, if you want to surprise one of your two friends right? You bring it out!!!! Lol!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      The game was pretty awesome! 😂 I don’t wanna gloat about having the ring

      1. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

        Oh I meant to give as a gift, no, ya, of course not lol

  10. April Avatar

    You had a long day! This was the baseball game you were right…sounds fun! We don’t have baseball over here…

    Celebrity worship gets far too weird and I find it unreasonable…

    Stay safe Rojie! That past blog stalker situation is overwhelming yeah…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yeah stalkers get really weird so I make sure I do my best to stay elusive. And the baseball game was awesome!!

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