financial advice

Currently listening to: Priceless – Maroon 5 feat. LISA

Baby, you’re priceless
I never had anything like this
I’m resting my head on your thighs, it’s
All I wanna do, yeah
It’s all I wanna do
Your body, I’ve never seen anything like it
So take my money, don’t want it, no
It’s all I wanna do, yeah

I told her not to touch her 401k. As tempting as it might seem in a financial pinch, pulling out of a retirement account comes with serious consequences—heavy taxes and a steep early withdrawal penalty. It’s like paying a premium for your own money, and it can really set you back long-term.

Instead, I suggested she reach out to her credit card company. Since she’s been a loyal cardholder, there’s a chance they might work with her to lower the interest rate. It’s not guaranteed, but the worst they can say is “no.” A polite phone call could potentially save her hundreds in interest.

We also talked about the idea of a personal loan. While it might seem like a lifeline, I reminded her that unless she tackles the root cause—her spending habits, it’s only a temporary fix. Debt moved around is still debt.

Then I encouraged her to look around her home for things she could sell. I know this is easier said than done—I’m a minimalist, so I don’t hang on to much. She, on the other hand, is a proud maximalist. But even just starting small could help her generate some cash and lighten the load, both physically and mentally.

Finally, I told her she really needs to build a monthly budget she can stick to, and when she’s in a more stable place, move her savings into a high-yield account. Even a little interest adds up over time, and it’s a step toward financial control rather than financial reaction.

Again, this is just my personal opinion. I’m not a finance bruh nor am I a CPA.


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16 responses to “financial advice”

  1. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Good advice Rojie. All of it, especially establishing a budget that is good for all of us.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yeah, I’m hoping it’ll work out for her!

  2. Dee❤ Avatar

    This is so true and a solid financial advice, touching a saving really sets you back

    1. justrojie Avatar

      It really can and the thought of dipping into a 401k makes me super cautious just cause of all the fines and taxes in itself

  3. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Yes definitely 😁 hopefully.

  4. Violet Lentz Avatar

    This is just another reminder of why I love being a poor person.

  5. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Hey Rojie? What about feetpics, OF, and stuff like that? Quick cash from what I hear.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Doubtful her bf would be ok with her doing OF. For feet pics I’ve asked her in the past but she shot me down 😂

      1. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

        Oh man ok right right

  6. Samantha Josephine (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧ Avatar

    My worker is constantly drilling it into my head that I need to budget. 🙁

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I hate budgeting but it’s a necessity sometimes

  7. Maddie Cochere Avatar

    Very sound advice, Rojie. You were a good friend to give her such sound advice and talk her out of touching her 401k.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Maddie!! I hope it’s the right advice

      1. Maddie Cochere Avatar

        I’d take it! 🙂

  8. Shirsty A Avatar

    The best advice I ever heard was, “do the carpet cleaning today… spend the money tommorrow.” So many people want to spend now and work later. Reverse that and you will look back at your life when your old and wonder how you were lucky enough to become a millionaire.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That’s damn good advice!

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