someone else

Currently listening to: Cupid – 112

Cupid doesn’t lieBut you won’t know unless you give it a tryOh baby, true lovewon’t lie but we won’t know unless we give it a trygive it a try

If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?

If you had asked me this question back in high school, my answer would have been—the blonde, popular cheerleader captain. She was effortlessly cool, dripping in confidence, the kind of girl whose presence alone commanded attention. She had the perfect hair, the enviable social circle, and an air of certainty that made the world seem like it bent to her will.

But now? I see things differently. Everyone has their own struggles, insecurities, and battles that aren’t always visible. The people we idolize aren’t immune to pain, self-doubt, or the weight of their own expectations. And honestly, I’ve grown into myself in a way that makes me content with who I am. My life isn’t perfect, but it’s mine—complex, messy, and weird.


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18 responses to “someone else”

  1. noga noga Avatar

    Keep living your life freely, you are beautiful rojie good morning my love

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you so much, Noga!! Lots of love to you 💕💜

  2. Hazel Avatar

    We love our life even if it’s a bit messy and challenging.🤭 its still beautiful.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      So true!!

  3. ibarynt Avatar

    And there’s someone out there who’d want to be you.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Idk about that 😂

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        You wouldn’t know but there’d be plenty. I’m sure your little patients and their families adore you🧡🧡

  4. Violet Lentz Avatar

    It was only recently I came across this wonderful word and definition:
    sonder
    n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own—populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness—an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.

    It has changed the way i see the world.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      This really puts things into perspective

  5. Sara Allwright Avatar

    Yep, I like the way you are Rojie. 😁

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Sara!!! I like how you are too!

      1. Sara Allwright Avatar

        You’re most welcome, and thank you Rojie!!! 🤗

  6. Info man Avatar

    👍 same with me it ‘ complex,messy and weird ‘ofcourse it makes me who I am .

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yasss!!

  7. emmah Avatar

    I love it !Growth is realizing that everyone has their own unseen struggles.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you!! It really is!

  8. Maddie Cochere Avatar

    You have definitely come into your own! I’m glad you didn’t say you would want to be someone else – even for a day. You are unique!!

    I feel the same way. I don’t want to be anyone else ever. I’m having too much fun being me. 🙂

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That’s what I’m sayin!!

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