steakhouse syndrome

Currently listening to: How Soon Is Now? – The Smiths

I am the son and heir
Of nothing in particular
You shut your mouth
How can you say
I go about things the wrong way?

It was my boss’s last day, so the three of us decided to take her out to celebrate. We chose a nearby steakhouse, and as we sipped our drinks at the bar, my boss excused herself to use the restroom.

While she was away, I noticed a man attempting to give the Heimlich maneuver to an unconscious patron. I immediately grabbed my coworker and intervened, telling the man to stop the Heimlich since the person was unconscious and to lay him on the ground instead. Later, I learned that the man administering the Heimlich was a retired firefighter.

I pointed to one bystander and told them to call 911. Then, I directed another to grab the AED. My coworker and I jumped in to start CPR. I began with chest compressions while she delivered rescue breaths using my disposable CPR mask. After two rounds, we switched positions to prevent fatigue.

When my boss came back from the restroom, we yelled for her to assist us. Without hesitation, she rushed over and immediately took over compressions from me.

Unfortunately, the restaurant didn’t have an AED on-site. We continued CPR for nearly seven minutes until paramedics and police arrived. When the paramedics hooked the patient up to the cardiac monitor, I caught a glimpse of the screen—and my heart sank. The rhythm showed asystole (flatline), which wasn’t a good sign. The paramedics loaded him onto the stretcher and into the ambulance, with the police following behind.

As the chaos subsided, the restaurant patrons went back to eating as if nothing had happened. The general manager came over to us at the bar and offered a round of drinks to thank us for our assistance.

This was definitely not the evening any of us imagined…none of us could eat because we knew what the outcome was going to be.  Instead, we ordered another cocktail and drank it in silence.

gets on my soapbox

Steakhouse syndrome is real. It happens when food isn’t chewed properly and gets stuck in the esophagus. So, please—chew your food thoroughly, and if you start choking, use the universal choking sign to signal for help.

Whatever you do, don’t go into the bathroom. Many choking victims make this mistake because they don’t want to cause a scene and underestimate the severity of the situation. Unfortunately, this delays critical help, and by the time someone finds them, it’s often too late.

If you talk to any firefighter, EMT, or healthcare professional, they’ll tell you that when they’re dining at a steakhouse, they eat with extra caution (I eat very slowly) —always scanning the room to ensure everyone’s okay.

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28 responses to “steakhouse syndrome”

  1. Darryl B Avatar

    Wow! I get the “not wanting to make a scene” thing but like you say, there’s a time for decorum and a time for an unmistakable call for help. Bless you and your co-workers for trying … maybe they were able to get him started in the ambulance. But a great PSA in any event 😎

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thanks so much!! There’s always hope that it happened on the ambulance.

  2. Violet Lentz Avatar

    This has actually happened to me, and in a steakhouse no less. Fortunately, in my case, the blockage was easily and swiftly dislodged by the bartender, and I went back to eating my meal. I chew much more carefully these days!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Oh my!! Yess steakhouse syndrome is real! I’m glad you were ok!

  3. Hazel Avatar

    It feels frightening to witness such scenes. When I’m in shock, I freeze. Can’t help anymore 🤭

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 that happens to a lot of folks!

      1. Hazel Avatar

        Yes, it’s genetic.🤭 not a good fit to be an EMT or firefighter.🤭

  4. ibarynt Avatar

    What Rojie, drama follows you? 🤣.
    On a serious note, thankyou for that valuable information. Who would’ve thought a simple steak could complicate matters.
    Do you think that person survived?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Chances are slim that he survived specially so much time without oxygen and his lips were starting to turn blue by the time they wheeled him away. My ex said drama loves me cause of my sassy hair 😆 whatever that means!

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Oh that’s so sad.
        You should’ve asked him what’s sassy hair and what has it got to do with drama. I’m so invested in this now 🤣

        1. justrojie Avatar

          😂 that will be another post!

          1. ibarynt Avatar

            Oh please write soon 🤣

          2. justrojie Avatar

            😂

  5. CJ Antichow Avatar
    CJ Antichow

    So true. And scary. In the long term care facility I used to work in, this family brought in a steak dinner for their mom’s 90-something bday as a treat. She choked and died that day. On her bday supper. So sad.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Omg that’s a travesty! So sad..😞

      1. CJ Antichow Avatar
        CJ Antichow

        Yep.

  6. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Good to know, I usually rush when I eat steak, but reading this, I will start to eat steak slower and chew really well, thank you for the heads up.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Omg yes slow down hehe the food isn’t gonna runaway

      1. Jesse Pallante Avatar

        Yes lol I need to! Good for you for stepping in and helping that guy out. I am sorry about the outcome.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Thanks, Jesse!! I tried I really tried

  7. Maddie Cochere Avatar

    So grateful you were there to help, but so sad at the outcome. I had no idea steakhouse syndrome was a thing. This is a good reminder steakhouse or at home – chew your food! Thanks, Rojie.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yess!!! Steaks and hotdogs, believe it or not are big choking factors!

  8. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Great job!!!!!! I hope this person pulls through! Wow!!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hope so!

  9. ianmdudley Avatar

    Good for you for acting and for having the training. I wish this was required training at all workplaces and colleges and not just for ERT members. I’ve never had to administer CPR, but I’ve had to use the Heimlich maneuver three times. And even remembering that still shakes me up. (First time was on my very young son – thank God I knew it.)

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Omg that’s so scary to do on a family member 🥺

      1. ianmdudley Avatar

        Scarier to need to do it and not know how…

        1. justrojie Avatar

          So true…

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