i don’t…

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Currently listening to: Boys – Britney Spears

What would it take for you to just leave with me?
Not trying to sound conceited
But me and you we’re meant to be
You’re a sexy guy, I’m a nice girl (don’t you know?)
Let’s turn this dance floor into our own little nasty world

Britney Spears – Boys (Album Version) (Official Video)

I won’t beg anyone to stay with me. If he leaves, he leaves. If he stays, he stays. I don’t want him to feel coerced into staying with me because then what we have won’t feel genuine.Β It’s not that I’m indifferent, it’s just that I feel like things happen for a reason… organically.Β Destiny.Β I can’t control that nor can I control him. I can only control myself. This has been a hard lesson to learn.

Sure, I might get emo for a bit but that just means that I felt a certain way about that person. That meant that I cared. Eventually, I’ll get over him and move onto the next because isn’t that what we’re suppose to do? I’ve already had a mental funeral for him and the love that was lost, but I have to move on with my life. Time waits for no one and I don’t want to be at a standstill and waste my precious time. Every minute counts.

It is what it is, it was what it was.


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13 responses to “i don’t…”

  1. noga noga Avatar

    πŸ™πŸΌβ€β€Well done for your decision, Rojie

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you thank you

      1. noga noga Avatar

        🌹❀

        1. justrojie Avatar

          πŸ’œπŸ’œ

  2. ibarynt Avatar

    And that is part of maturity. Hopefully, you meet someone who’ll pursue you relentlessly and not let you go so easily πŸ€—πŸ€—.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Aww thank you thank you

  3. Samantha Joe "Sambuca" Woessner Avatar

    I agree. What happens, happens, if it’s good, great! But if not, let it go!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Exactly!

  4. Info man Avatar

    True ! I too friend zone most of the men around me , but sometimes before I friend zone them they friend zone me πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ , it make me think, oh i should have done that first πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…, and those who got crush on me are so dumb 😀 , it weirdly funny πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ .

    1. justrojie Avatar

      πŸ˜‚ it’s a race to who can do it first

      1. Info man Avatar

        πŸ˜‚

  5. Laura Avatar

    A mental funeral, man. I felt that. It sucks but as you said, it is what it is. You never know what can happen. It’s hard πŸ™

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thanks!! Yeah…it sucks but what can ya do?

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