What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?
There are so many but here’s a short list:
- bullying
- narcissism
- anger management issues
- never meeting their friends or they have no friends
- lack of accountability
- lack of empathy
- abusive behavior
- gas lighting
- controlling or possessive
- inconsistency
- emotionally unavailable
- lies. I know everyone says white lies but if it’s habitual or for no reason, then that’s a red flag for me.
- overly jealous
- threatening to break up all the time
- frequently flakes on plans
- poor financial management
- parasitic exisitence
- codependent
- reckless
- love bombing
I’m far from perfect, I know my toxic traits:
- lack of trust
- sometimes, being too honest
- poor communication
- mirroring when I’m attracted to a person
- having too many male friends
- overly sexual
- workaholic
- ability to compartmentalize, it’s the only way to self-regulate my emotions when I’m at work. I can’t let my feelings spill into what’s happening with a patient.
- I think my biggest problem is that I like to see how red the flag can get… and I only end up hurting myself. For someone who’s smart, I make a lot of bad choices. Le sigh.
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