Category: blog
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big project
Read more: big projectI’m thinking of doing something outside of the box, it’s so fucking exciting for me and I can’t wait to share this with everyone. It’s also something I should have done years ago when I was at the peak of my blogging phenomenon. Anyway, I’m looking for an artist. Granted, I probably wouldn’t be able…
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spiritual mix
Read more: spiritual mixHow important is spirituality in your life? Without spirituality, we would be nothing but zombies. Spirituality provides me with: purpose for living connecting with others inner happiness increased self-esteem enlightenment To me, spirituality is different than cultural customs and regions. I believe in a higher being. My beliefs are a mix between: Shamanism, Taoism, Confucianism, Buddhism,…
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low key
Read more: low keyMood: cheeky, enraptured Slept: nine hours, I wore myself out Currently listening to: Mastermind – Taylor Swift “What if I told you none of it was accidentalAnd the first night that you saw me, I knew I wanted your body?I laid the groundwork and then, just like clockworkThe dominoes cascaded in a line What if…
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self care
Read more: self careHow do you practice self-care? I do a lot of things for myself: masturbate (trust me, it relieves a lot of tension/stress) keep a balanced sex life retail therapy deep breathing exercise intermittent fasting stay hydrated sleep in setting boundaries journal/blog watch a movie or go to a concert meet up with friends prioritizing myself…
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time vampire
Read more: time vampireHow do you waste the most time every day? Streaming services suck up my time: Hulu, Prime, Max, Disney+, Netflix, and Paramount plus. I get caught up with the true crime documentaries or shows like Bridgerton, k-dramas, or the Umbrella Academy. It’s my escape from reality…
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dream a little dream
Read more: dream a little dreamCurrently listening to: L0L0 – Hot Girls in Hell I blissfully fell asleep last night and before I knew it, I was having a bizarre dream. Zaddy was sleeping next to me whilst wearing my Hello Kitty sweatshirt that was much too small for him. He looked ridiculous. I woke up to go to the…
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take me back
Read more: take me backWhich food, when you eat it, instantly transports you to childhood? 짜장면 always takes me back to when I was little and in the motherland. I crave these black bean noodles (beef or vegetarian with an egg on top) often, it pairs well with sweet and sour chicken or pork. I am not a fan…
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soulmate
Read more: soulmateExit two, enter two. She was the only one who I would tell about my trysts. Every single juicy little detail. Jules was probably the most beautiful Korean I’ve ever met. We bonded when I was living in the Midwest and we quickly became best friends. She used to inspire me to write about certain…
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lies
Read more: liesI question everything he’s told me because I feel like it’s all been a lie. I let my emotions get the better of me. I got swept off my feet by this Zaddy giant and was floating on cloud nine. But if I look at the facts only, it doesn’t add up. The math ain’t…
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Korean memoir
Read more: Korean memoirWho is your favorite historical figure? Queen Seon Duk (선덕여왕). In a historical twist that would make any royal drama proud, Princess Deokman became Queen Seondeok, making her the first reigning queen of Silla and the first female monarch in Korean history. Her ascent to the throne in 632 AD was not without its challenges….
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the first
Read more: the firstWrite about your first crush. My first boyfriend was my first crush. I was fourteen going on fifteen. He was sixteen going on seventeen. Of Hawaiian and German descent. Dark haired, 6′, tan, fit, and stylish. He had a smile that made me melt. His voice was soothing and I could listen to it all day.He was…
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summer time
Read more: summer timeI’m so ready for the summer. The plans: Concerts Travel Working out Rooftop dining Road trips Traipsing down memory lane
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around the world
Read more: around the worldWhat countries do you want to visit? There are so many places I’d love to visit. I’d love to start off with these:
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villain arc
Read more: villain arcCurrently listening to: Forever – 수호 POV: me entering my villain era I’m removing toxic relationships from my life, prioritizing myself, becoming slightly unhinged, and setting stronger boundaries. It’s a main character energy vibe. I’ve blocked many people on my socials. It’s been long overdue to be honest and it’s as if a weight has…
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about me
Read more: about meWhat’s your favorite thing about yourself? There are a few things that I fancy about myself: Oh, I’m super adventurous. I like to push the envelope. I love to be naughty, spontaneous, and open-minded. I like to explore new horizons and embrace diverse perspectives. Life should be exciting and full of fun. I’m a gemini,…
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in a day…
Read more: in a day…Current mood: salty AF, thinking about Zaddy put me in a mood Accomplished: studied for four hours, there’s still more to do Finished binging: 30 for 30 the Life and Trials of Oscar Pistorius This is my usual daily consumption: lentil chips gluten free chips and an assortment of nuts small slices of cheese egg…
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retirement
Read more: retirementHow do you want to retire? I dream about this quite often. Honestly, I can’t wait… Obviously, I’d take the steps to ensure that I’d be comfortable and live in the lifestyle I’ve grown accustomed to. I want to retire early so that I have ample time to check things off my bucket list, enjoy…
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horoscope for the day
Read more: horoscope for the dayWell, isn’t this a bitch…and very much accurate.
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on the daily
Read more: on the dailyWhat’s the oldest thing you own that you still use daily? It would be me, myself, and I. Runner up is my Apple Watch. I forgot what generation it is but it’s at least older than my phone.
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zaddy
Read more: zaddyCurrently listening to: We Don’t Talk Anymore I was watching a show on Netflix and all of a sudden it hit me. The reason why Zaddy never invited me to his place or introduced me to his friends was because he was FUCKING married. He seemed to be prevaricate whenever I’d ask him. For YEARS,…
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fav moments
Read more: fav momentsDescribe one of your favorite moments. I have so many fav moments: winning piano state and national competitions having hot sex in my car going to a Taylor Swift concert and being in an awesome suite getting the keys to his place after a month of dating graduating with honors, thrice dining at the French…
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ummm…
Read more: ummm…So this happened…someone saw this and sent it to me. I don’t know why anyone would want to use my tiny profile picture, blow it up all blurry, and use my image in a blog post…especially without permission.
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today…
Read more: today…What notable things happened today? UPDATE: I lost all my CryptoKitties.FML. I think it’s too early to say since it’s about midnight. So I’ll have to update this later on and let y’all know.
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gifted
Read more: giftedI’m super lucky to have such amazing family and friends. This year, I was gifted many things. Pictured are the Jungkook shirt and Gemini necklace given to me by friends. I love them.
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more passion
Read more: more passionWhat are you passionate about? This is a loaded question. There are so many things I’m passionate about: music art REALLY good sex foods – ranging from fine dining to gastropubs to food stalls blogging Korean skincare travel health personal growth dogs and cats money expanding my knowledge coffee/espresso true crime documentaries
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the timing isn’t right
Read more: the timing isn’t rightMy friend won three tickets to a concert in Chicago this weekend. She asked me if I could go. Unfortunately, the timing is horrible as I have to work, study, and have dinner reservations at a Michelin-star restaurant. And then she told me that the concert also entailed a meet and greet and the seats…
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seasons change
Read more: seasons changeWhat is your favorite season of year? Why? There are a lot of reasons I love autumn/fall:
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write hard, felt harder
Read more: write hard, felt harder“A total inability to stop thinking about you…feelings like dreaming of you when I’m asleep. And in fact, preferring sleep because that is where I might find you. A feeling that is like torture. But one which I cannot, will not, do not want to give up.” – Colin Bridgerton
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love bombing
Read more: love bombingDo you love-bomb? Or do you love being love-bombed? I don’t do either. Le sigh. Many of my friends have expressed that they would love to be love-bombed. Me? Not so much. It just makes me suspicious of the person and if someone comes at me too hard initially, it makes me want to distance…
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can’t live without it
Read more: can’t live without itWhat’s the one luxury you can’t live without? Luxuries I can’t live without: my home internet cell phone americanos or regular espresso my car health insurance (sad to say but it’s expensive in the U.S.) Luxuries I could live without but I don’t want to: hot sex exquisite food traveling streaming services nespresso maker concerts…
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tagged
Read more: taggedIf humans had taglines, what would yours be? My tagline would be: love, write, and thrive.
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new peeps
Read more: new peepsI’ve been getting more likes on my blog entries and followers. I’m loving it. Thank you so much. Love y’all, XOXO
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the good life
Read more: the good lifeWhat are the most important things needed to live a good life? I’d say there are a few things you’d need for a good life:
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smells like teen spirit
Read more: smells like teen spiritBefore going out, I’d make sure that everything was waxed (Brazilian) or shaved clean. I’d take a warm bath and exfoliate the multiple layers of dead skin off my body (with a Korean cloth) till it felt l felt smooth like a baby’s ass. I’d apply a lightweight moisturizer all over my body to keep…
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together
Read more: togetherWho do you spend the most time with? I spend the most time with myself. During my alone time, I think about all the things that I need to do. I’m constantly prioritizing my day. I think about streamlining things, daydreaming, and working on myself. Other than myself, the people I spend a lot of…
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see you later
Read more: see you laterCurrently listening to: See U Later – Blackpink Can’t believe how busy this summer is already. A friend asked me a few days ago when I’d be available to hang out next and I had to tell him mid-August. Since then, more friends have reached out to “book an appointment” with me. LOL. Now, it’s…
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what’s in a name
Read more: what’s in a nameIf you had to change your name, what would your new name be? If I could change my name, it would be Athena.
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summertime
Read more: summertimeI can’t believe that summer is just around the corner. I’m debating on whether or not to do beach curls again this summer. Thoughts? It’s also time to get super serious about getting into the hot girl summer vibe. I know, I’m late to the game but I’ve been hella busy.
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milky choco
Read more: milky chocoDescribe your dream chocolate bar. Add some hazelnut to this bar and this would be my dream chocolate bar. I know that dark chocolate is healthier but for me, I am not a fan of the bitterness. I need the milky goodness with nuts for texture.
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the classics
Read more: the classicsDo you remember your favorite book from childhood? There are a few books that I loved when I was a child. Where the Sidewalk Ends Where the Wild Things Are The Little Prince The Giving Tree Madeline Oh, the Places You’ll Go
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filming
Read more: filmingTwo of my friends are in the midst of creating and filming documentaries and it’s so fucking awesome. I wish I had that skill set. I’m hella excited for them and oh so proud. This is their moment. A producer friend is trying to get us on a popular show. LOLOL. We’ll see what happens…
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breeding fetish
Read more: breeding fetishI remember once he asked me if I had a breeding fetish. I didn’t. I don’t recall a time where I’ve ever wanted to have children, which is probably odd for a lot of people. I love kids…other people’s children. But also ask me if I used protection while we were together? Funny, I did…
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influence
Read more: influenceList three books that have had an impact on you. Why? There are three books that made an impact on me: The Sorrows of Young Werther, I learned about how unrequited love can bring one insane joy and torment. It had a deep influence on romanticism. This book is banned in many countries.“I sometimes cannot…
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who’s afraid of little old me?
Read more: who’s afraid of little old me?What fears have you overcome and how? There are plenty of fears I overcame, but these are the top three: being a disappointment. I stopped worrying about what people expected or wanted (especially my parents) and all I could do was my best. public speaking. I’ve been tasked to provide trainings and lectures to my…
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if he really wanted to, he would
Read more: if he really wanted to, he wouldI think about it quite often. “If he really wanted to, he would.” I had a conversation with a friend of mine who recently broke up with her boyfriend. She told me all the things he didn’t do but promised to do…and my response was, “If he really wanted to, he would.” And the truth…
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party time
Read more: party timeWe went to a concert the other night and I had so much fun. Look at me acting like I didn’t have to work the next morning or that I didn’t stay out late the night before for a movie screening and worked twelve hours. Since we had VIP passes, we were able to enter…
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it’s the little things
Read more: it’s the little thingsDescribe one simple thing you do that brings joy to your life. One thing that brings me joy is good sleep. I have anemia so I get fatigued easily but nothing makes me happier than a peaceful night’s rest for eight or more hours.
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age is nothing but a number
Read more: age is nothing but a numberPart I So this happened at the concert tonight… He literally came up to me and kept trying to get closer. I acted like he wasn’t there, which I’m pretty fucking good at now because I can ignore just about anyone. Then he began talking to me. I continued to not respond to him till…
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unplug
Read more: unplugHow do you know when it’s time to unplug? What do you do to make it happen? When I don’t want to go on the socials, I want to ghost my friends and want to sleep for hours on end. I usually turn my phone off, go about my day, and turn it back on…
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movie screening
Read more: movie screeningGot home late from a movie screening. Every once in a while, my friend will bring us to these movie screenings. We’re told to be discrete as there may be press and other actors present. The movie isn’t released yet so I’ll be somewhat discreet about it…but damn, it was so fucking good. I could…
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of value
Read more: of valueWhat quality do you value most in a friend? There are a few things that I value in friends : not being judgy cause I can get ratchet at times being able to read the room or have 눈치 (noonchi) empathy but not a pushover either dependability, I hate flakes honesty, because otherwise, what’s the…
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another birthday
Read more: another birthdayAnother birthday has passed. My family and friends showered me with love, food, gifts, and well wishes. I feel very blessed. It’s funny. Yesterday, I wrote about Beau Mec. Today, he’s texting me, wishing me a happy birthday and we are catching up in life. Last year, I was in Phoenix. And the year before…
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work
Read more: workWhat jobs have you had? I’ve had quite a few jobs, a majority of them were in healthcare, which my family greatly influenced. I was a data analyst, data operator, and web developer outside of healthcare. I also sold art at university and worked in retail at a luxury store. Before that, I babysat my…
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some degree
Read more: some degreeDo you practice religion? I grew up as a Christian and went to church every Sunday. At one point, I was a Sunday school teacher and keyboardist in the church band. Being Korean, Buddhism, Shamanism, and Confucianism are embedded into our culture. I’ve stopped going to church for personal reasons. I believe in a higher…
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love poem
Read more: love poemThis was a poem from Beau Mec. He wrote this…about me. Le sigh. I was his muse. He had it framed when he gave it to me. I got teary-eyed reading it and cherished it for years, even after we broke up. It felt bittersweet letting it go. I was on my way to moving…
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the forgotten
Read more: the forgotten“There’s just no rhyme or reasonOnly the sense of completionAnd in your eyesI see the missing pieces I’m searching forI think I’ve found my way homeI know that it might soundMore than a little crazy but I believe” The scene (prelude): Winter semester. Tons of snow falling and it’s -10 degrees Fahrenheit. I am living…
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another life
Read more: another lifeDo you remember life before the internet? I remember life before the internet but it feels like another lifetime ago. Instead of being online, I would spend hours and hours playing piano or violin, reading books, listening to music, daydreaming, and being with my friends. For most of my life, the internet has been my…
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good stuff
Read more: good stuffWhat are you good at? I’d say that I’m good at a few things: getting stains on my clothes (as pictured) having sex (ask my exes) reading people creating chaos playing the piano writing learning new software wasting time having good intentions disassociating keeping an open mind obsessing about skincare embracing curiosity cutting people off…
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everything
Read more: everythingWhat does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable? This could mean several things to me: being financially stable unconditional love supportive family and friends good health life balance
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ttyl
Read more: ttylWho would you like to talk to soon? I would want to talk to my dad…but I know I can’t since he’s passed away.
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the pharma chronicles V
Read more: the pharma chronicles VI was already over the day by dinnertime. I was happy to see my friends and in the mood for good food. I skipped breakfast and lunch for this. I ordered the misoyaki butterfish, which was amazing by the way. The person sitting next to me was non-stop bragging about how much money she was…
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precious
Read more: preciousWhat personal belongings do you hold most dear? There are a couple of things that I hold most dear:
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time traveler
Read more: time travelerI was going to stay domestic this year but there may be an opportunity this summer to go to CDMX/DF and Oaxaca. If this happens, I’m going to try and go to as many Michelin restaurants as possible. It may be multiple trips but we’ll see how things pan out.
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the collector
Read more: the collectorDo you have any collections? There are quite a few things that I collect: candles photos videos vinyl dolls plushies art hotel keycards postcards friendship bracelets handbags/wallets memories
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how did it end? (rojie’s version)
Read more: how did it end? (rojie’s version)Things ended when he moved back to Virginia. Living in Los Angeles presented a myriad of financial difficulties and lifestyle challenges that became increasingly unmanageable for him over time. I don’t want to say that he couldn’t “hack it” living in California but it was a financial struggle for him to stay. When he announced that…
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legacy
Read more: legacyWhat is the legacy you want to leave behind? I think a legacy I’ll leave behind is that of kindness and acceptance. I’ve helped countless people during their most vulnerable moments. I advocate for my patients, especially those who are health illiterate and unable to navigate the complex healthcare system.
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chilly
Read more: chillyHow do you feel about cold weather? I have a love/hate relationship with the cold. I do prefer it over the sweltering heat, however. I love wearing layers of clothing and going for a brisk walk; feeling the crisp air makes me feel good and alive. The downfall is the other things that come with…
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broken
Read more: brokenHave you ever broken a bone? I was in high school when I fractured my right wrist after a freak skiing accident. My bone actually jutted out of my wrist and for some reason, I didn’t seem to be in pain (to note, I do have a high tolerance to pain). When I went to…
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tetris
Read more: tetrisHow do you balance work and home life? I balance work and home life meticulously, almost as if I’m playing Tetris. Every day, hour, and minute are accounted for. Even though it sounds daunting, I do carve out time to spend with family and friends. It might not be as often as I’d like but…
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yesteryears
Read more: yesteryearsWhat sacrifices have you made in life? My dad passed away when I was in my 20’s and since then, I’ve been taking care of our family.
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weird
Read more: weirdAll day, I’ve been getting weird vibes. The day felt off and I could not get comfortable. Patients were canceling their appointments left and right. And then I found out that one of my patients who had an appointment today passed away in the morning. It made us all feel uneasy at work because he…
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things that make you go hmm
Read more: things that make you go hmmWhat’s the oldest things you’re wearing today? Sad to say, but the oldest thing I’m wearing is my underwear. I think I got it about three years ago at Victoria’s Secret, when they were having a sale.
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evolution
Read more: evolutionAre you a leader or a follower? First off, I’ll just preface this by saying that I’m a Gemini. Haha! I feel like I am a hybrid of both a leader and a follower. It really depends on what the issue or topic is about. All day long, I’m a take-charge kind of person because…
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fruity
Read more: fruityList your top 5 favorite fruits. These are my favorite fruits: avocado mango lychee Asian pear açaí
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good vibes
Read more: good vibesShare a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life. Miss Fox. She was my Early American Literature teacher in tenth grade. Because of her, I became interested in writing, analyzing, and reflecting.
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napa: chez panisse
Read more: napa: chez panisseI drove down from Napa to Berkeley, it was an easy drive since it was around noon on a Friday. I was listening to my music and enjoying the scenery. It’s been a minute since I was in the Berkeley area, I think the last time I was there was when I was doing university…
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free
Read more: freeWhat does freedom mean to you? It’s to be able to choose who I want to be without any boundaries. I don’t take my freedom lightly.
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agree to disagree
Read more: agree to disagreeWhat public figure do you disagree with the most? I’d have to say most politicians because of their greed, lack of transparency, and narcissistic tendencies.
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five year plan
Read more: five year planWhat is your career plan? My goal is to further my education, increase my skill set, and become a better leader.
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i hate it here (rojie’s version)
Read more: i hate it here (rojie’s version)I can laugh about it now but at the time it wasn’t funny. It was rather dark and scary. We had gone to Morongo for an overnight trip. I’ve never been there and I wasn’t much of a gambler. He drove us from Culver City to the casino. When we got there, we dropped off…
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pop 2000 tour
Read more: pop 2000 tourWhat was the last live performance you saw? The last concert I went to was the Pop 2000 tour. Of course, I had to go since it had the boy bands I adored. Chris Kirkpatrick of *NSYNC was hosting and Lance Bass made a cameo. The performers were: O-Town, BBMak, Ryan Cabrera, and LFO. We…
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napa: tfl
Read more: napa: tflThe French Laundry (TFL) has been on my bucket list for quite some time. I’ve tried to get a table a couple of years ago to no avail. My friend tried for a few months and with the help of her partner, they were able to get the coveted reservations. It was a dream come…
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dream job
Read more: dream jobWhat’s a job you would like to do for just one day? I would love to be a homicide or special victims detective. I’ve worked with law enforcement in the past and I have family members who are police officers. I want to find the bad people and help people get justice.
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thanK you aIMee (rojie’s version)
Read more: thanK you aIMee (rojie’s version)“But when I count the scars, there’s a moment of truth That there wouldn’t be this if there hadn’t been you” I know that tragedy and suffering have shaped me into a better person. All the painful heartbreaks weren’t in vain. It allowed me to grow, evolve, and become resilient.
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napa: kenzo
Read more: napa: kenzoLocation: Kenzo Estate, Napa, $235 Kenzo estate wine + Kenzo Napa bento: an elevated experience It was about a 20-minute drive from our hotel, the road was a one-way windy road. Luckily, I still had the effects of the Dramamine that I took a few hours ago. We were full of anticipation and eager to…
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label junkie
Read more: label junkieWhat are your favorite brands and why? I am a reformed label junkie. I used to be a luxury brand fanatic but now I just don’t really care what I wear as long as it’s comfortable, unique, and cute. Luxury brand favorites include: Prada – I mean come on…clean lines and minimal aesthetics. Louis…
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the prophecy (rojie’s version)
Read more: the prophecy (rojie’s version)“Hand on the throttle Thought I caught lightning in a bottle Oh, but it’s gone again” I used to do my best not to get attached to people. Males or females. Friends. Significant others. It really didn’t matter because relationships change and oftentimes end. In the end, all good things come to an end.
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one direction
Read more: one directionWhat gives you direction in life? There are several things that give me life (in no particular order): unconditional love coffee amazing food phenomenal sex blissful sleep beloved friends and family the desire to be the best, I’m in competition with myself and not with others being well-traveled financially sound being unapologetically me
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peter (rojie’s version)
Read more: peter (rojie’s version)“And you said you’d come and get me, but you were twenty-five And the shelf life of those fantasies has expired Lost to the ‘Lost Boys’ chapter of your life Forgive me, Peter, please know that I tried To hold on to the days When you were mine But the woman who sits by the…
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chloe or sam or sophia or marcus (rojie’s version)
Read more: chloe or sam or sophia or marcus (rojie’s version)If you wanna break my cold, cold heart Just say, “I loved you the way that you were” If you wanna tear my world apart Just say you’ve always wondered.” It didn’t matter who they were with before or after me. After all this time, I still wonder if they think about me. I guess…
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quotable quotes
Read more: quotable quotesDo you have a quote you live your life by or think of often? Quotes I think of often: “I desire the things which will destroy me in the end.” – Sylvia Plath“You kept me like a secret but I kept you like an oath.” – Taylor Swift
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holiday
Read more: holidayWhat is your favorite holiday? Why is it your favorite? Christmas is my favorite holiday. All the hustle and bustle, people are more cheerful, the cool crisp air, and having time off from work is always a plus for me.
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cassandra (rojie’s version)
Read more: cassandra (rojie’s version)“Cause that’s where I was when I got the call…” I remember the exact moment when I got a call from my brother, it was while I was working. He said, “We have to go to the airport, dad’s in the hospital.” That my friends, was the worst day of my life. I didn’t know…
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canadian rockies
Read more: canadian rockiesHave you ever been camping? The last time I officially went camping (not glamping) was in the Canadian Rockies with my family. We went hiking, horseback riding, and went to the icefield. We slept in our tents and van as we trekked there from our home. It was picturesque, family bonding, and a moment…
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so high school (rojie’s version)
Read more: so high school (rojie’s version)“Get my car door, isn’t that sweet? (That sweet). Then pull me to thе backseat (The backseat) No onе’s ever had me (Had me), not like you.” I think he preferred my car over his even though he had an Audi…at least for having sex. Not that we needed a lot of room…I’m pretty flexible…
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cut off
Read more: cut offI had enough of it so I cut it off. Three inches. I didn’t have any split ends. I just felt like all this hair was weighing me down because it was so long. Every so often, I feel like I need a change. Become renewed. New hair, new me. It’s still past my shoulders. …
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productivity
Read more: productivityWhen do you feel most productive? I’m a night owl. I feel the most productive at night, unfortunately, due to my work schedule, I have to sleep earlier than I want to.
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robin (rojie’s version)
Read more: robin (rojie’s version)“You have no room in your dreams for regrets”. I have a closetful of regrets. I regret: that I didn’t have more of a childhood. I had to grow up quickly. pursuing a guy who already had a girlfriend. This happened while I was at university (freshman year) and it was so fucking messy. entering…
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