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toxic till the end

Currently listening to: toxic till the end – ROSÉ

I’ll never forgive you for one thing my dear
You wasted my prettiest years
Back then
When I was running out of your place
I said I never wanna see your face
I meant
I couldn’t wait to see it again
We were toxic

Picture taken at the beach, as we watched the sun set whilst drinking wine that should be outlawed because it was absolutely vile….but the view was a vibe.

If our relationship had an album, it would be this: rosie

  • like a bull, I charged headfirst into all the red flags, they weren’t even pink flags
  • I ignored my instincts even when I knew better
  • never physically abusive to each other but I got pulled into playing chess mind games when I didn’t want to participate
  • gaslighting at its finest
  • unable to DTR
  • had me benching him and then others for him
  • funny how this would have never happened if he wasn’t handsome, knew how to rizz a girl up, and was sexually impressive

I found a rough draft of a old blog post I wrote about him in one of the e-mails I was using at the time.  After reading it, I wanted to punch myself in the face.  Who was this girl?  Pendeja.

“A few days ago, he promised to give me a big hug at my request. I was having a shitty ass day and wished he was close by to offer me a hug that day but he wasn’t.  I would have to wait for it.  I was eager to see him and to feel his body close to me.  I loved the way it felt, it made me feel safe and happy the way our bodies molded into one another.”


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18 responses to “toxic till the end”

  1. veerites Avatar

    Dear Rojie, 
Your posts show correct 🛣️ road to knowledge of several things.
    This post too leads to wisdom. 
I admire you for this.
    My heartfelt thanks for your liking of my post on Firhico 🥰❤️💓♥️🌿🌼💕 Veerites ( Prof Dr Rajendra Shinde, Raj)

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you!!

  2. veerites Avatar

    Dear Rojie, 
Your posts show correct 🛣️ road to knowledge of several things.
    This post too leads to wisdom. 
I admire you for this.
    My heartfelt thanks for your liking of my post on Play 🥰❤️💓♥️🌿🌼💕 Veerites ( Prof Dr Rajendra Shinde, Raj)

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thanks so much!

  3. Punk Rock Is Forever says Sambuca Avatar

    Blah, I’ve had so many failed relationships, it ain’t funny. 😮

    1. justrojie Avatar

      We could write a book about it

  4. iakovoskriegor Avatar

    Relationships are beautiful. May you have many good times ahead, hopefully with the one who will be your forever after!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you for this!

  5. Shel R. Avatar

    I’ve started a few posts about my failed relationships, and toxic ones at that – but I always decide not to post them. Maybe one day – I’ll be brave enough.
    I hate having that ONE that always makes us want to run back, but we know better. lol.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      If you do post it, pls lmk. There’s always that one…

      1. Shel R. Avatar

        Absolutely! 😁

  6. ibarynt Avatar

    That’s a great way to cover up. Over here, people use soda cans or sprite bottle (dark green), plenty of ways to innovate 😉.

    Another lesson learned.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      So many lessons 😆

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Too much, discard some of them 🤣

  7. Justin Avatar

    Sorry to hear that you went through such a rough relationship. My last relationship was really rough too. I’m appreciating being single for now.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      So sorry to hear about your past relationship. I’m loving the me time though.

  8. noga noga Avatar

    😍Well done for posting, my love. May God make you happy and make your heart happy

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I appreciate you and this response! Thank you!!

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