dear me,

LINK: dear me,

Currently listening to: I’m So Paid – Akon feat. Lil Wayne, Young Jeezy

I get it in ’til the sunrise (ay)
Doin’ 90 in a 65 (ay)
Windows rolled down screamin’ out
Ay, ay, ay, I’m so paid
Number one hustler gettin’ money (ay)
Why you wanna count my money? (Ay)
I’m a hustler, I don’t need none of y’all, you see
I’m so paid

If your current self could give you advice to your 21-year-old self, what would you say in one sentence?

Prompt created by yours truly. 
Feel free to use any prompts for April 2026 that I post and/or tag me.
I’d love to read your responses.

It was Susie’s birthday and no, I didn’t bake that cake (my German friends made it, LOL). And yes, I was mad lit. Drinking before we went clubbin’.

Dear R,

You’ve got a lot of potential so don’t waste your time with that loser, don’t move to Dallas and stay in Chicago or go back to California, and for the love of God—stop taking people for granted, doing sniff snuff at Oktoberfest, now go out there and live más.

Con Amor,

R
XOX


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46 responses to “dear me,”

  1. ibarynt Avatar

    Young you was 😍😍

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lolol i was trouble with a capital T

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        I relate to that 😁

        1. justrojie Avatar

          🤣 you seem like you wouldn’t be… but maybe it’s the quiet ones you gotta worry about

          1. ibarynt Avatar

            Oh always the quiet ones 🤫 🤣

          2. justrojie Avatar

            🤣

  2. Rob McShane Avatar
    Rob McShane

    Love this prompt. To my 21yr old self?:
    1. Don’t be so scared of life. Whatever happens, you can manage it;
    2. Take it slow- don’t rush in – stand back, breathe, and think a bit ;
    3. Accept life as it happens and respond with your own feelings and actions- don’t try and make things happen to make yourself comfortable;
    4. Be your kind and gentle self… it’s okay;
    5. Respect everyone and everything – if you don’t feel comfortable, just move away- don’t fight what you don’t like.
    6. Be aware of your own feelings, trust them, believe what you know, deeply know, and accept this. Allow yourself to be guided by it.
    7. Remember that nothing happens without a reason and if you let it unfold, you’ll find that at some stage- just go with it.
    Okay… that’s enough for now…Sjoe thanks!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      this is great advice. btw are you s. african?

      1. Rob McShane Avatar
        Rob McShane

        Born and raised in the Uk but have lived in SA for a looong time 😀😀

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Ahh I ask cause you said sjoe

          1. Rob McShane Avatar
            Rob McShane

            Gee, that’s quick of you 😀 how did you know that?

          2. justrojie Avatar

            i think I saw it on a TikTok or Instagram reel lol

      2. Rob McShane Avatar
        Rob McShane

        English by birth and education… South African now for looong time 😀😀
        Yourself?

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Korean but born in the U.S.

          1. Rob McShane Avatar
            Rob McShane

            And moved around a lot I read-all good experience??

          2. justrojie Avatar

            some good and some not so good

  3. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Very nice picture of you! Good advice 👍

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hehe thanks, Jesse

  4. Hazel Avatar

    I didn’t see a cake🤩😁 Look lovely, Rojie

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😂 thank you, Hazel!

      1. Hazel Avatar

        My pleasure, Rojie

  5. Ajinkya Rane Avatar

    The cake looks like Ned from The Simpsons.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😂 that’s funny

      1. Ajinkya Rane Avatar
  6. aparnachillycupcakes Avatar

    Nice Rojie.. I love those prompts ❤️

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Aparna!!

  7. M. Avatar

    21 M-
    Bro, it’s April
    Don’t wait til August
    Dump that crazy bitch to the curb now !!!
    -55 M

    1. justrojie Avatar

      🙌🏻 🙌🏻

  8. Info-Man Avatar

    Wow cake looks better than most of my cookings 😂😂😂

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lololol a hairy cake

      1. Info-Man Avatar

        Oh those are hairs , i thought it was burnt or something 😂😂 my bad , my bad .

        1. justrojie Avatar

          🤣

  9. Edward Ortiz Avatar

    I love your response to the prompt. Nicely done. 👍

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, Edward!

      1. Edward Ortiz Avatar

        You’re very welcome.

  10. ianmdudley Avatar

    Were you drunk? Or … constipated? That look, it’s hard to tell… 😉

    1. justrojie Avatar

      i was completely wasted lol

  11. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Did you girl’s fight over the p.? Oh! To 21me, stay sober!!!!!!!! Hahahahaha!!!!!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol nah that was all hers

  12. Sambuca (✿◠‿◠) Avatar

    Yes, don’t go looking for things that want to stay hidden.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yassss 🙌🏻

  13. April Avatar

    She is happy!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yasss 👏🏼

  14. Jake Avatar

    Hot rojie!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      LOL!

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