2.14.26

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Currently listening to: 좋으니까 (Because) – Changbin x Felix

I just really love you
You’re the only reason why I really love you
When I see you smile I just can’t get enough
And I can’t live without you
Baby I just really love you

How was your Valentine’s Day?

2.13.26

Galentine’s Day

I went on a three mile walk with my ARMY friends before going to my second job. As the four of us were walking, we began discussing the upcoming events that we had planned for the next few months.

I got a buncha, “Happy Galentine’s Day!” texts from friends. Brenda mailed me a card… she’s ever so thoughtful with the holidays. I love that for her.

2.14.26

Valentine’s Day/Love Day/Vagina Day

I am a romantic kinda person… but Valentine’s Day just hits different for me.

This day is like any other day for me. In a way I feel like the Grinch but on Valentine’s Day. I dislike the prix fixe menus, the substandard service, the double bookings. Restaurants know people make multiple reservations, so they overbook in return because they know that people will cancel.

Three dudes asked me to be their Valentine this year. I kindly said no to them. IDK, I’m just not really feeling it this year for some reason, not that I was before but even moreso this year.

Once, a guy I was dating gave me a giant Bath & Body Works basket full of lotions, sprays, candles, and all that. I asked him if he got it on sale. He hadn’t. I told him to return it. I could tell that he was butt hurt but I just couldn’t accept the gift. I appreciated the gesture, but because he was broke, I didn’t want to feel like I was costing someone more than they could comfortably give… if that makes any sense. I’d rather have a home-cooked meal, takeout on the couch, or handmade art instead.

On the other hand, there was the guy I dated for a week, who took me to Spago for Valentine’s Day and spent the entire dinner talking about how rich he was. If my eyes could have rolled any further back in my head, it would have gotten stuck. Needless to say, there wasn’t a second date.

Instead, I went to the Dr. Martens warehouse sale. Sandals for $55, shoes for $65, boots for $75, and Made in England pairs for $100. Roughly half off sale prices, which is my love language. LOL.

For a minute, I wondered if I was over my Doc Martens era as I tried on a few pairs of boots. But nah, I wasn’t over it yet.

I purchased a pair of the caramel brown 1460 Pascal Bex Made in England boots. UK size 5, US 7. Normally $280, on sale online for $189.99, and I paid $100. I would’ve preferred black, but beggars can’t be choosers. The leather is ridiculously comfortable and soft. A couple of women who were seating near me also trying on shoes told me that the boots looked cute on me while I was trying them on. It was giving Paul Bunyan vibes but zero fucks were given.

I think this spring and summer, I’m feeling my inner grunge/goth era. We’ll see. I can’t commit right now (Gemini issues), but I’m flirting with the aesthetic.

When I got home, I cleaned the laundry room, washed a load of laundry, finished eating my leftovers, packed up another donation bag for pickup, gave my dog a bath, worked on the traveling journal that one of the girls sent me. I can’t wait till I get mine back so I can flip through all the pages and share it with you.

Anyone else ready for February 15?


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25 responses to “2.14.26”

  1. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Here, there is a shop as old as hell, Rock Junction, I’ve bought many Doc M.s pairs there, I like them too, I can’t wait to read about your traveljournal! More Rojie!!!! Yesssss!!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, Nico!

  2. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    What’s on the 15th Ro.? Lol😌

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol it’s just another day but it’s not v day

  3. Jake Pickard Avatar

    Poor puppy 🐶.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol it has to be done unfortunately for him

  4. Hazel Avatar

    You know what made me giggle?–“entire dinner talking about how rich he was.”🤭😁 Gosh! I even forgot yesterday it was Valentine’s Day if Aparna and Mama hadn’t greeted me. My yesterday’s post never talked about Valentine’s Day.🤭

    1. justrojie Avatar

      aww it’s ok, it’s really just another day

  5. ibarynt Avatar

    Ooh those boots look good.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, thank you!

  6. Violet Lentz Avatar

    I love Doc’s. Haven’t had a pair since the ’90’s…….

    1. justrojie Avatar

      what’s old comes back in style again… or so they say 😀

  7. Sara Allwright Avatar

    No dates for me so I too bought myself a pair of Dr Marten boots in the sale – the bright pink ones 😍

    1. justrojie Avatar

      oooh i saw those!! they were cute too, i tried on the pink plaid ones too

  8. utahan15 Avatar

    just friends then
    take care

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, John!

  9. Ajinkya Rane Avatar

    nice shoes!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, Ajinkya!

  10. Jake Pickard Avatar

    Well if you are going into a grunge era may I suggest Melvins as part of your soundtrack: https://youtu.be/19y8V_WCtTI?si=dZsGJ31NR801lwQO

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thanks, Jake for the rec! listening to it now

  11. Jake Pickard Avatar

    Oh and buying good foot wear (those docs are cool) is love for your feet.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      self love is the best kinda love lolol

  12. Jake Pickard Avatar

    What kind of puppy do you dog mother?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      i have a yorkipoo lol he’s about five pounds

    2. justrojie Avatar

      i had a pit before, RIP :<

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