be yourself… or not

LINK: be yourself… or not

Do you think it’s possible to be completely yourself around another person?

I’d like to think so… but if I’m being honest, I’m not sure I’d ever allow myself. to be 100% around anyone. There’s always that small insecure part of me that holds backโ€”afraid of being judged or misunderstood. Acceptance sounds amazing in theory, but it is terrifying in practice. It means being seen, exposed, vulnerable… seeing the good, bad, beautiful, and the fucking ugly

For the most part, I know I’m a good person. Not perfect, but I try. I try to be kind, to be fair, and think of things from another perspective. But I have my desires, quirks, indecisiveness that vacillates, and all the oddities that make me who I am. I’m also a romanticโ€”hopeless. I want to believe that one day, someone will make me feel safe enough to let my guard down completely.

Please tell me that I’m not the only one…


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33 responses to “be yourself… or not”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    Of course, you’re not the only one, Rojie. I smiled at your “please.”๐Ÿคญ I feel like that, too. There’s hidden character within me when I’m with someone. Hugs to you.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Hazel!!

  2. Sara Allwright Avatar

    Youโ€™re not the only one Rojie! ๐Ÿฅน

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Sara!! ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ˜†

      1. Sara Allwright Avatar

        Youโ€™re very welcome Rojie ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ’•

  3. utahan15 Avatar

    well percy
    sings ya are
    and he s sage
    so you know
    no one is themselves ever!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      people show what they wanna show…

      1. utahan15 Avatar

        no doubt

      2. utahan15 Avatar

        love ya rojie

        1. justrojie Avatar

          <3 thank you!

  4. Violet Lentz Avatar

    As a result of many years working in the public eye, I have a persona I don when I am with people I do not know- and now that I am not working- I am trying to shed that and just learn to be my unedited self.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      that’s my aspiration…

  5. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    It is possible to let your guard around another person. No you aren’t alone.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thanks, Jesse! I feel like it’s the hardest around family and competitive friends

  6. ibarynt Avatar

    Definitely not the only one. I think we all keep a tiny part of ourselves with us.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, Iba!!

  7. vic5566 Avatar

    Never lose hope โœŠ

    1. justrojie Avatar

      thank you, vic!

  8. ianmdudley Avatar

    It’s just you, Rojie. Just you. It’s … Justrojie.

    The rest of us are all open books to everyone. You need to get with the program!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol well damn, now i feel like a total imposter!

  9. papadosshortstories Avatar

    We all wish to find that person. But I don’t think we have to be perfect to match with someone. I have the conviction that with our pros and cons as characters, we will complete each other with that special person. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿงก

    1. justrojie Avatar

      i hope so too!! thank you for this

  10. Prog2Goal Avatar

    The only person that I was 100% myself around was my bestie. He passed away suddenly in 2018. I will say that having that person and then losing that person is profound.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      le sigh… that is so sad to hear, i’m sorry… i hope that you can find another bestie and be your true self with

  11. M. Avatar

    I don’t it will EVER be possible to be 100% transparent

    1. justrojie Avatar

      idk why it’s so hard for me to be 100% though… maybe it’s mostly fear of not being accepted. it made me think as i was watching the show “you”

  12. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Wow ya, I hold back myself, it’s funner for ME to have fun!! Do you see a bit? Ya!! Ohhhhh, me there Rojie, at 50, I am discovering how to live with damage kinda that I inflicted on myself, like funny signals from my frostbiten right hand…..yes lololololol!!! It’s true, this me

    1. justrojie Avatar

      yikes hopefully your hand is okay. people should have fun because this is the only life they’ve got… till the next.

      1. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

        Yip!!๐Ÿ˜

  13. Info-Man Avatar

    Hmm i can only be myself being alone , other humans just don’t understand my energy ๐Ÿ˜‚.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      mine is all over the place lol

  14. April Avatar

    Let the lucky guy find you soon

    1. justrojie Avatar

      fingers crossed!

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