IG NV

LINK: IG NV

Do you have “Instagram envy”?

Prompt snagged from: NY Times

I don’t feel bitter or jealous of others lives on IG/TikTok. Most of these influencers live a faux life, showing the public what they want us to see. It’s meant to spark envy but most of it is smoke and mirrors.

With that said, I enjoy being on socials for different reasons. It’s mostly for educational purposes and comical relief. If i’m already doom scrolling, I might as well learn something that makes life a little easier, specially in this economy.

Things like which websites or AI prompts to use for finding deals, cheaper concert tickets, or hotel discounts. I find uncovering these little secrets rather fun, plus it saves me time and money.

I also appreciate the accounts that warn us about sneaky updates from apps and Apple, and even walk us through how to disable invasive settings.

Like this, I turned mine off cause it supposedly matches places in my photos with a global index maintained by Apple. Yeah, no thanks.

I also need to stay on trend. Trends come and go at a lightning speed online. And if I’m going to build rapport with my adolescent patients, I have to know what they’re talking about.

BTW, this trend has long passed but I found it funny because when I was little, all I wanted was to be a white girl. The low income white girl eyes trend: females with light, sunken eyes, dark bags, hooded lids, and downturned corners. Theres no scientific data to back this up but this is what people are judging others socioeconomic status by.

And we can’t forget the memes, right? They never fail me.

Legit me when I’m on a plane or train or basically anywhere, unless I’m with fam or friends.


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24 responses to “IG NV”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    I’m that horse often. I hope I can improve this. Like to start a friendly conversation when someone sits beside me.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol I just go on my phone or stare out the window 😆 I’m too introverted

      1. Hazel Avatar

        Rojie, how can we overcome it?🤭🤩 But, I think you’re not introverted to your patients.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          You have to pay me to not be lol my regular state is introverted but since I’m working I gotta do my job

          1. Hazel Avatar

            I can’t be extroverted either.🤭 Even they pay me much.😁

          2. justrojie Avatar

            😂

  2. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Ain’t that truth. I hate it when there is a whole bunch of open seats and the person has to sit right next to me. That sucks, but with my luck, that’s the way it goes, darnet.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hehe yeah!!! It’s like why me???

      1. Jesse Pallante Avatar

        Yes exactly why me 😁

  3. ibarynt Avatar

    I’m learning the hustling tips from you. Unfortunately, we don’t have as much to hustle with here.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      There’s hacks for a lot of things, I just haven’t had time to dive into despite rotting in bed for 12 hours 😂

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Yeah I doubt 12 hrs would be enough 😅

        1. justrojie Avatar

          i need a full two days of bedrotting and i am feeling 100% lol

  4. Violet Lentz Avatar

    I get to live vicariously- and I love that.

  5. ianmdudley Avatar

    I don’t have Instagram Envy (or, as the yuts say, “IG NV”).

    Why not?

    Because I had it installed for one day. The interface confused me, I couldn’t find stuff, I may or may not have accidentally left a comment or two of random characters as I tried to navigate the app with my touch screen, and then got an email the next day saying I was banned.

    No idea why.

    Did an auto appeal, forgot about it, and much later got an email denying the appeal and permanently banning me.

    Still don’t know what my transgression was, tho I suspect it was installing on a tablet and NOT providing a phone number.

    But I also don’t care. That first day, stumbling around, convinced me I wasn’t the demographic.

    I’m too old…

    And frankly, there are A LOT of hos on IG. Like in the default stream / scroll / feed. I shudder to think how many would show up if that was what I was looking for!

    Again, I’m too old and fuddy duddy for it…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      damn that sounds pretty drastic. have you tried bluesky?

      1. ianmdudley Avatar

        Bluesky? LOL

        1. justrojie Avatar

          It’s sorta like Twitter but better

          1. ianmdudley Avatar

            Not on Twitter. Not gonna get on bluesky.

  6. Edward Ortiz Avatar

    I love that first quote. So true, and sadly, for many people, that’s all they know: work.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      It’s a reminder to myself too cause I get so focused on work that I forget about everything else

      1. Edward Ortiz Avatar

        Yes, keeping some kind of balance is the key.

  7. quantumkindy Avatar

    Comparison is the thief of joy. I don’t have Instagram envy because lot of what we see on Instagram & social media is people’s highlight reels. We don’t know what’s going on behind the scenes because people don’t really share their struggles, so i mind my business. My focus is on creating the best life for myself and being happy from within

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yasss exactly!!! This is how it should be

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