younger and older bruhs

Currently listening to: Killin’ It Girl – j-hope (from BTS) feat. GloRilla

Runway ready, gotta get some confetti
‘Cause we gotta celebrate like it’s your birthday
Looking like a twenty from Korea to Miami
Oh, I wanna get with you in the worst way

Below are texts from two of my 동생 (donseng – younger brother/sister, this could also include friends who are younger).

The Veteran has been saying this to me for years, even though I told him I’m forever XXI.

And then there’s Jack, a short king and was The Veteran’s former roommate. He just knows how to make a girl feel special, eh?  rolls eyes

My older friends like to give me advice on life and tell me that I’m still the baby of the group. They also bought me cake from Cheesetella and bought me gifts that I actually wanted but never bought them for myself. They’re thoughtful like that.

Side bar: I’ve dated younger and older men.

According to the internet, the dating rule to determine an “acceptable” age difference in partners goes like this:

half your age + seven (34 = 17 +7 = 24 years old) = minimum age of a partner
your age – seven 2 (34= 272 = 54 years old) = maximum age of a partner

I have to say, that’s a wicked range.


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14 responses to “younger and older bruhs”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    I think my maximum age range exceeds for decades when I date. I like mature men.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Same, girl, same

  2. Info-Man Avatar

    Oh there is a rule for acceptable age of a partner,that’s new for me🧐

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 it was news to me too

  3. Matt Avatar

    Well that equation is bunk to me i am content with the 12 year difference in my relationship to my wife.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 I say whatever works, go for it!

  4. Violet Lentz Avatar

    I have always stayed quite close to my own age range- within 5 years either way.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That’s probably the safer route. But dudes my age act like they’re still 18 😆

  5. ianmdudley Avatar

    It really comes down to maturity. A large disparity there is, for me, disgusting.

    That said, the older the youngest person is in the relationship, the less creepy a large age gap. But it still gives me pause. I think age-appropriate is +/- 5 years. But I’m in a committed relationship. Ask me again if I’m ever single (God forbid, the dating scene terrifies me). Hopefully, I’m not a douche who thinks 50+ year olds can date 18-year olds…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      It’s tough times out there 😆

  6. ibarynt Avatar

    I can’t understand that equation, no maths please 😅. It’s interesting there’s an acceptable age difference. I’ve always thought 5 years is the best, the guy being 5 years elder I mean.
    Nowadays I’m not so sure, everything is upside down.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Some girl on ig said her range is 30 to coffin 😆

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        She’s got it pat down 😅

        1. justrojie Avatar

          🤣

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