grit

Currently listening to: Someone Like You – Adele

Never mind, I’ll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you, too
“Don’t forget me, ” I begged
I remember you said
“Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead”

Hummingbird finding a rather dangerous place to nest.

I know people love the word resilience. It gets tossed around a lot—especially in tough times. “You’re so resilient.” “Just be resilient.” It’s meant to be a compliment, a marker of strength. But… I don’t love it. Not for me.

I don’t always recover quickly. I don’t bounce back with a clean slate and a sunny disposition. Life doesn’t always work like that… at least for me anyway. Sometimes, I feel everything deeply, I’m passionate, and I overthink. I try to stay the course and keep focused. I persevere to my detriment at times. I’m the driver who will drive my car into the ground.


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20 responses to “grit”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    It’s okay to feel like that. It’s normal: we’re human. Hugs and love, Rojie

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Hazel hugs

      1. Hazel Avatar

        You’re always welcome, Rojie. Still, enjoy your Sunday!

  2. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Preservering is better because you are working towards something that will give you joy in the long run. Resilience is just bouncing back from a terrible situation, which most persons never do. There has to be work behind Resilience for them to bounce back, just saying.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That’s true, Jesse!

      1. Christian Avatar

        So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.”

        1. justrojie Avatar

          I love that quote

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  4. ibarynt Avatar

    Another word is superwoman.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆

  5. ianmdudley Avatar

    You know what would help you with this?

    Resilience.

    You’re welcome. 😉

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😂

  6. Michael Williams Avatar

    i totally agree!! i grew up having to be resilient about EVERYTHING and now, I just want everything to be easy and handed to me. i don’t want all this difficult stuff, that’s crazy! Mike

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Lolol I need to work smarter not harder

  7. sambucawint3rpear Avatar

    People say that I’m resilient and I guess I am, bc I’ve learned to be that way… or be left behind.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I say you also got grit cause you didn’t wanna be left behind and wanted to go forward too

  8. Joe Avatar

    I think it’s possible for people with grit to still have other people’s thumbprints all over them…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Damn that’s so true too!!

  9. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Ya! Your a rocket!!!😉

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Aw thank you, Nico!

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