puffed out chest

Currently listening to: Sucker – Jonas Brothers

I’m a sucker for you
You say the word and I’ll go anywhere blindly
I’m a sucker for you, yeah
Any road you take, you know that you’ll find me
I’m a sucker for all the subliminal things
No one knows about you (About you), about you (About you)
And you’re makin’ the typical me break my typical rules
It’s true, I’m a sucker for you, yeah

Who is the most confident person you know?


Zaddy.

The most confident, self-assured, cocky MF I’ve ever encountered. He carried himself with an ease that bordered on arrogance, the kind of energy that could make a room turn just to soak it in. If you didn’t know him you may have thought he was a narcissist, no doubt, but it was wrapped in charm and undeniable presence. I had never met anyone quite like him before.

I don’t know if it was intentional—if he designed it that way—but next to him, I sometimes felt like an impotent child. Whatever power I had cultivated in my country bumpkin life felt insignificant in comparison to his. It wasn’t just his intelligence or the way he commanded conversations, but the way he maneuvered through life as if the world bent to his will. I never felt like his equal—not because I lacked capability, but because my own insecurities and his carefully crafted mind games kept me at a disadvantage.

And yet, he made me feel good, in other ways that mattered. Sexually, he unfurled me, knew how to pull strings I didn’t even realize were there. I knew he was brilliant, and I couldn’t always counter him in conversation—his knowledge extended beyond mine in certain realms. Entertainment, art, high fashion, the intricacies of travel—these were his playgrounds. But I had my own domains: health care trends, diseases, sex, classical music, expressive writing, technology, and being Korean. That was where I thrived.

There were times, though, when his endless talking grated on my nerves. He had the ability to drone on and on. Sometimes, I disassociated entirely without realizing it, letting his words become white noise. Other times, I’d gently caress his face and begin kissing him passionately so that he would shut the fuck up. I much preferred the latter because it was way more enjoyable.

Maybe that was part of the appeal. The push and pull, the contrast. The way his years of experience made him seem untouchable, yet somehow, I had been let into his world… and I let him in my world.


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32 responses to “puffed out chest”

  1. noga noga Avatar

    Love, life, to love and to record your beautiful moments. I wish you happiness for your heart and your whole life rojie ❤❤🙏🏻🥰

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you, Noga!!💜💕💜

  2. Violet Lentz Avatar

    Such spectacles of supremacy are usually safer when left on the pedestal they have fashioned for themselves. Just sayin’….

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I hear ya

  3. Samantha Josephine Hunter Avatar

    Zaddy must have been a very very pawesome person eh?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I’d say he was one of a kind, talented, good looking, and very persuasive when he wants to be. Hah!

  4. Sara Allwright Avatar

    All experiences we learn from…

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yes…

  5. Hazel Avatar

    This sounds so personal, rojie. Intimacy is normal. I hope you’re okay with Zaddy.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I’d say it is personal. I haven’t had contact with zaddy for quite some time now. It is what it is, I suppose. All good or bad things come to an end .

      1. Hazel Avatar

        That’s what life is. Stay safe, rojie

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Thanks, Hazel! You too!

          1. Hazel Avatar

            Thank you, rojie

          2. justrojie Avatar

            you’re welcome, Hazel!!

  6. iakovoskriegor Avatar

    Hope you meet him again one day, and he decides to make you his own!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Aw thank you but I think that ship has sailed

      1. iakovoskriegor Avatar

        My ship sailed away like the windmills in the video clips by GORILLAZ, they did feel good inc and el manana.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          can’t say that i’ve seen the clips but i can imagine.

          1. iakovoskriegor Avatar

            I think feel good inc may of come out in 2005. I should of been medicated since 1998, when I was in grade 3. But it wasn’t until I was in grade 11 that I was medicated. Sometimes I’m grateful for medication. The mental health system teaches me not to think highly of myself.

          2. justrojie Avatar

            people who are medicated can be happy about who or what they have become, do nice or good things every day.

          3. iakovoskriegor Avatar

            Well, that is good advice! Hope you are able to find true love.

          4. justrojie Avatar

            Thank you!!

          5. iakovoskriegor Avatar

            I guess you have a lot of energy, for both true love and full time work

  7. ibarynt Avatar

    He sounds like he’s from a novel.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      He’s unique. There are fond memories of him that I have of him.

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        The good and the bad comes hand in hand.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          That is fax

  8. CBD Pain Roll-On Avatar

    ❤️👍good post

  9. Maddie Cochere Avatar

    What a force he was! Did you feel he was a manipulator in any way? You have certainly had some interesting people go in and out of your life.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      He def was. In some instances I’d say that he was. In others he wasn’t, I think it depended on the mood or what we were doing 😆

  10. April Avatar

    unfurling is all that matters! when it does…😌

    1. justrojie Avatar

      So true. Get lost in the bliss

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