do you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth?

Currently listening to: Stickwitu – The Pussycat Dolls feat. Avant

And I sayNobody gonna love me better, I’ma stick wit you foreverNobody gonna take me higher, I’ma stick wit youYou know how to appreciate me, I’ma stick wit you, my babyNobody ever made me feel this way, I’ma stick wit you

What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.

“Are you North Korean?”

Like… why? 

And when I told them that my parents are from South Korea, they seemed to be disappointed with the answer.

Over the years, I’ve been asked that question so often that I finally gave up and just started saying yes—purely for my own entertainment. Watching people’s eyes go wide as saucers, the gears turning in their heads, was priceless. Inevitably, they’d ask how I escaped, and that’s when I’d spin an elaborate tale in a hushed voice about having high-up connections in China who smuggled my family and me to freedom. *Cue dramatic pause.*

Of course, none of it was true, but the reactions? Chef’s kiss.

Funny enough, I never take offense when people assume I’m Japanese despite all the war crimes and atrocities that they committed against Koreans.  

Make it make sense…


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33 responses to “do you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth?”

  1. Catatan Petualang Avatar

    Sometimes someone’s question is a trap due to a desire for an answer to their question. and when they find the answer is not as expected..they are disappointed. This world is indeed strange, huh? Greeting write justR🙏

    1. justrojie Avatar

      The world is strange indeed my friend!

      1. Catatan Petualang Avatar

        I agree with you

  2. Catatan Petualang Avatar

    Sometimes someone’s question is a trap due to a desire for an answer to their question. and when they find the answer is not as expected..they are disappointed. This world is indeed strange, huh?

  3. Violet Lentz Avatar

    Just a thought, humans are forever seeking out heroes. It is very possible those people that you share your escape stories with, are doing just that.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That is possible too, I never thought about that!

  4. Hazel Avatar

    Like…..why? I giggled. I think you’re a good storyteller about your escapade from north Korea. Hey, you’re south Korean. Why they ask so personal?🤭🤭🤭

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 people are very nosey here haha thank you!!

      1. Hazel Avatar

        Yeah. You’re always welcome, rojie

  5. Samantha Josephine Hunter Avatar

    LOLOL!!! I love your reaction to all of this!! 💯💯💯💯💯

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hahaha thank you, Sammy!!!

  6. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Hahaha! Do some believe you and nod and all that?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol yes! They are shook!

  7. Sanny Avatar

    I can understand why you hate that question. 😄

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hah thanks, Sanny!

  8. Emily Avatar
    Emily

    I would never ask someone’s race, I’d rather have them tell me depending on where the conversation is going.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Personally, I don’t care about race. I just wanna know if the person is nice or not 😂

  9. Laura Avatar

    Haha, people are sometimes just so open about the way they ask things too. They don’t think it through. They probably want to ask you a bazillion and one questions lmao 🤣

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 I don’t know what compelled me to tell this wild story but they ate it all up 😂

  10. Info-Man Avatar

    😂😂😂😂😂 i think when I first saw your pic I was easily able to know that you are korean , btw why they were disappointed when you were not north korean , were they thinking of getting to know a whole escape story from north Korea and disappointed 😂 , that’s weird about them 😂😂.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I think people wanna hear what they wanna hear 😂

      1. Info-Man Avatar

        😂😂 odd things to say 😂😂 lol

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Fr fr!

          1. Info-Man Avatar

            😂😂

  11. Darryl B Avatar

    Hahaaaha, great answer! Like it’s any of their business anyway, but the story of being smuggled out by high-level Chinese people… too funny. 😂👍

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😂

  12. Maddie Cochere Avatar

    People just need to mind their own business. Why ask in the first place? … But you sure can weave a good tale! 🙂

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol i dont know but people are curious AF!

  13. ibarynt Avatar

    I think that’s a roundabout way of just asking for a story. Why do they want you to be from N.Korea? I can imagine those stories. I told plenty myself. Quite a few friends thought I was a teen, single mom 🤣

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Omg lololol!!

  14. April Avatar

    If I was anyday around and know the facts myself….see you weaving stories for these people… keeping them on toes…I wouldn’t be able to stop myself from giggling…haha..

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol i just say things now because they don’t want to accept the truth anymore

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