delicate

LINK: delicate

Currently listening to: Shake It Off – Mariah Carey

I gotta get this off of my mindYou wasn’t worth my timeSo, I’m leaving you behindYeah, ’cause I need a real love in my lifeSave this recording because I’m never coming back homeBaby, I’m gone (gone), don’t ya know?

Sometimes, my male friends forget that I’m a girl.

They don’t mean to be reckless, but when excitement takes over, they grab my arm with a vice-like grip, leaving behind ecchymosis fingerprints. Their hugs, meant to be affectionate, sometimes squeeze the air from my lungs, crushing me in their enthusiasm.

I have bruises in varying stages. I know they don’t mean harm, but damn… sometimes, it looks like I’ve been through hell and back. It also doesn’t help that I’m anemic and prone to bruising easily.


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29 responses to “delicate”

  1. Darryl B Avatar

    Wow, Rojie! That’s crazy! Guys usually know…even when a little hammered… that they don’t grab and hug girls as hard as they do other dudes. Maybe sit them down and show them your forearm? “Dude! Look!” 😯😠

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 I’ve shown them before and they apologize profusely and then it’s like their brain resets the next time we all hang out

  2. Samantha Josephine Hunter Avatar

    Be careful Ro. Even if their brains reset, you need to remind them, that you are anemic and bruise easily! 😮

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I’m just gonna wrap myself in a bubble 😆

  3. Sara Allwright Avatar

    Wow… that’s some bruise!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yeah that’s just one arm 😂 I didn’t realize them till I was taking a shower

      1. Sara Allwright Avatar

        No good Rojie! Sort them out… 😁

        1. justrojie Avatar

          I wonder if squeezing them hard would make a difference

          1. Sara Allwright Avatar

            Hmm…Probably not, they’d no doubt like it! 😅

  4. Jesse Pallante Avatar

    Yes seriously talk to them and tell them that you are a woman and they should treat you like a woman and not a guy. This kind of stuff is unfair 😔. You deserve good treatment.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Yeah they re like super hyper extroverts 😂 and I’m not.

      1. Jesse Pallante Avatar

        Just tell them to take it easy with you.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          For sure!

  5. Sanny Avatar

    😲They need to be a little more mindful. I know how they can get sometimes when excited and sometimes they need to take it down a bit.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😆 I wish they would!! They get forgetful. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  6. April Avatar

    Oh dear!

  7. Maddie Cochere Avatar

    I’m sorry to say, that’s what happens when you are adorable and huggable! 🙂 But you are right, you must be prone to this type of bruising. I’m sorry. One of the guys at our local pub is a great hugger, but he doesn’t know his own strength. You can get a cracked, aching back from his hugs!

    So … I see you posted a Taylor Swift song. … What? … Mariah Carey? … Mariah did it first! And it’s so pretty!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol yes i feel like guys don’t know their own strength! ahh yeah i love both songs! they’ve got different vibes and it suits them.

  8. Hazel Avatar

    It seems like you have somewhat sensitive and very soft skin, rojie. Stay safe with your “very excited” friends.🤭

    1. justrojie Avatar

      lol I think the anemia makes it worse 😆

      1. Hazel Avatar

        Oh, I’m sorry to hear about the anemia, rojie. Sending love and prayers.

        1. justrojie Avatar

          thank you so much, Hazel!!

          1. Hazel Avatar

            You’re always welcome, rojie. Stay healthy.

  9. ibarynt Avatar

    That is one very tight hug.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      It really is!

  10. Info-Man Avatar

    Lol this thing is done by my dad , sometimes he took forgets that I am his daughter not the son 😂😂

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Men!! 😆 they just forget or don’t know their own strength

      1. Info-Man Avatar

        😂😂lol my dad is a police officer, fit as hell and when he forgets, it dangerous 😂😂😅

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Oh snaps!!

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