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love language

Currently listening to: Chasing Cars – Snow Patrol

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and
Just forget the world?

What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

My primary love language is acts of service.  Because actions speak louder than words.  This would include:

  • help running errands
  • fix things around the house
  • drive me to places
  • make homemade meals
  • curate a weekend getaway or staycation
  • assist with chores

My secondary love language is physical touch even though I’m not a touchy-feely type of person in public.  I also tend to prioritize sex in intimate relationships.

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18 responses to “love language”

  1. jayargonaut Avatar
    jayargonaut

    A nice song from a good band Rojie. The language of love; an interesting language and psychology that if we all understood better, especially when younger, the world of relationships would be a much less hazardous place, maybe! I hope the winter is treating you well😊. Kind regards, Jay

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      it’s such a great song! lol i have to concur, there are a lot of things i wish i understood as well. thank you and hope you’re having a great new year thus far!

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      1. jayargonaut Avatar
        jayargonaut

        Thank you. You too Rojie…wishing you a great & prosperous 2025👍.

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          Happiest of new year to you and your family!

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  2. Punk Rock Is Forever says Sambuca Avatar
    Punk Rock Is Forever says Sambuca

    I love teh PDA baby. 😀 😀 Course, I wear my heart on my sleeve. 😛

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      lol i’ve got RBF so it’s hard to tell either way hah!

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  3. ibarynt Avatar
    ibarynt

    Very true, acts of service reflect the love one has.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      it’s interesting to see others have different responses like my friend is spending quality time and receiving gifts. what’s your love language?

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      1. ibarynt Avatar
        ibarynt

        My love language is small, thoughtful gestures and touch.

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          I love that ☺️

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  4. Sara Allwright Avatar
    Sara Allwright

    Love that song!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      me toooooo <3

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  5. April Avatar
    April

    Grey’s anatomy made me fall in love with Chasing Cars. What a great one!

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Oh yes!! They did play that song on there!

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  6. Laura Avatar
    Laura

    So true, acts of service is where it’s at. The same for me…gifts and physical touch and compliments are nice and all but… 😆

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      😆

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  7. Maddie Cochere Avatar
    Maddie Cochere

    I love Snow Patrol by Chasing Cars. One of my all-time favorites.

    Nice response to the prompt. I think my first love language would be Words of Affirmation. I want to know what someone thinks; I hate guessing. Even if it’s something I cooked. Do you like it? Is it ok? 🙂 After that, Acts of Service.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      I totally see that!! Love your answer!

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