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judge, jury, executioner

Are you a good judge of character?

Overall, I think that I am but every once in a while, I do second guess myself when it comes to my personal relationships however.  Within five minutes into a date, I usually know if it’s going to be a good time or a train wreck.  With Asian men, it’s easier to do a vibe check.  With non-Asians, it takes a little bit longer to finesse. 

But I also have no control over other people’s actions, especially when they have situational problems and their demeanor changes. 

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20 responses to “judge, jury, executioner”

  1. Info man Avatar
    Info man

    To me , I think sometimes I am, most of people that I hate at first are in reality very bad but sometimes I am wrong, it’s like literally 5 people who are like that whom I judged wrong in my life. Reminds me of my one friend, I thought she was innocent, when she got close to me 🤯 , she was not even 1% close to innocence. 😂😂😂😂😂

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      😂 sometimes people are good at hiding their true selves

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      1. Info man Avatar
        Info man

        No actually, I had wrong perception about her 🤣 she is one of the good friend I have 😂😂.

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          Oh snap 🤪

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  2. noga noga Avatar
    noga noga

    Well done, my love, may God protect and protect you

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Thank you so much 💕💕💕

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  3. themaeflick Avatar
    themaeflick

    Woof, what a treat to read! What is better or worse—to see things coming or to be utterly stunned? (I consider each excruciating)

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      I think utterly stunned cause you can at least prep for what’s coming, I suppose?

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  4. veerites Avatar
    veerites

    Dear Rojie, 
Your posts directly hit like an arrow to the target 🎯
    This post too.

    How kind of you to like my post on

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Thank you so much!!

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  5. Punk Rock Is Forever says Sambuca Avatar
    Punk Rock Is Forever says Sambuca

    I know when people are legit after awhile, you have to take them at face value first then, when they drop the mask, then you know if they are good or bad.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      That’s for sure!!

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  6. ibarynt Avatar
    ibarynt

    We never truly know. I’m a terrible judge of people. I take people at face value. Even the very good people change with life circumstances as they go higher 🤷‍♀️.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      I’ve seen people change especially when there’s a death and money is involved

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      1. ibarynt Avatar
        ibarynt

        Money, success, I’m actually seeing a ‘friend’ change and it is sad, she has nothing to say to me 🤭.

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        1. justrojie Avatar
          justrojie

          Oh no 😥

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  7. Adarsh G Avatar
    Adarsh G

    Wonderful way to express love ❤️

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      Thank you!!

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  8. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    It sounds like you trust your instincts but acknowledge that people’s actions can sometimes be unpredictable. It’s a balance between intuition and patience.

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    1. justrojie Avatar
      justrojie

      It really is… people can change when there’s motive and opportunity

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