Currently listening to: According To You – Orianthi
But according to him
I’m beautiful, incredible
He can’t get me out of his head
According to him
I’m funny, irresistible
Everything he ever wanted
Everything is opposite
I don’t feel like stopping it
So baby, tell me what I’ve got to lose
My friend asked me why she wasn’t enough for her now ex-husband. They’ve been together since she was sixteen years old. I didn’t have an answer for her.
People change. They evolve. For better or for worse.
I wasn’t the same person I was before. I’m not the slob, you could fry an egg on my head with all the grease that had accumulated, lazy and not brush my teeth or hair, chronically late to everything, and habitually over drafting my funds person anymore. I’m quite the contrary now. I’m probably one of the most hygienic, hustling, and on time if not early, and money saving females amongst my friends. I’m still a FITS (freak in the sheets). There are some things that don’t change, hah!
I can’t tell you what made me change all of the sudden other than I had dreams. I had aspirations and desires. I was more self-aware. My needs and goals changed and if I wanted to succeed, I had to undergo a metamorphosis.
I couldn’t tell her why she wasn’t enough for him. All I could tell her was that she was not the same person I met a decade ago. She wasn’t the meek and quiet person hiding behind her man anymore. She lost nearly fifty pounds, she was standing up for herself, her self-confidence had increased, and she was finding her voice.
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