just rojie

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you don’t know me

What’s something most people don’t know about you?

Currently listening to: Night Changes – One Direction
RIP Liam

We’re only getting older, baby
And I’ve been thinking about it lately
Does it ever drive you crazy
Just how fast the night changes?
Everything that you’ve ever dreamed of
Disappearing when you wake up

I have chronic intermittent pain. 

It’s from a combination of:

  • poor posture and slouching (I feel like Godzilla next to my very petite Asian friends and I just want to shrink to their 5’1″ frame)
  • work injury when I was 25 years old, this put me out of commission for nearly a year.  I had to see multiple orthopedics specialists, ortho surgeons, and chiropractors.  I have herniated discs in my C3-5 and if they get bigger, I will need to have surgery, which requires them to go through the front of my neck.  It also affected my lumbar region.
  • motor vehicle accidents that were NOT my fault.  A driver in front of me, decided that reverse was the new forward.  I honked and yelled at him but he wasn’t paying attention.  Needless to say, he crashed into my front bumper and I got whiplash.  I mean who does that? The last accident was a couple of years ago when I was t-boned while driving in LA, a guy ran a red light when I had a green light and crashed into my side of the car.
  • there’s also the nasty monthly woman disease cramps.

Despite all this, I didn’t let it define my life.  I still do what I want to do.  It doesn’t slow me down.  I’ve been going to Compton for dance classes.  Having sex in the back of my car or wherever and being quite flexible (Zaddy can verify).  *grins*.  Hiking, running, hip hop and latin dancing, wear stilettos and high heels, curling up like a cooked shrimp, and whatever else I want to do.  

I just make sure that I stretch every day, get routine checkups, exercise regularly, and eat a balanced diet.  I have ergo everything at work, they had a specialist come out and evaluate me and my workspace.  If I get a flare up of pain, which is rare (maybe once or twice a year), I’ll take 400-800 mg of Ibuprofen with food and in about an hour, I’m good as new.  I have a high tolerance for pain and I’m so grateful for that.  


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24 responses to “you don’t know me”

  1. wendysparker72 Avatar

    You are a warrior!!

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I’m trying!!

  2. noga noga Avatar

    Wonderful, my dear, good morning,

    1. justrojie Avatar

      good morning!

  3. sambuca22 Avatar

    I’m 5′ so I’m pretty short but I’m chonky. =P That’s great that you don’t let life get you down! 💜

    1. justrojie Avatar

      I wish I was five feet but it is what it is, gotta make the most of it

  4. Mr. Bird Host Avatar

    Rojie, I thought you were 24 years old haha, guess not.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      That’s quite possibly the nicest thing anyone has said to me in a while 😆.

      1. Mr. Bird Host Avatar

        You look (and write) great!

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Thank you thank you!

  5. Laura Avatar

    Haha, I kinda said the same thing in my post as your title (when I decide to post it) is that we don’t really know each other 🤣 sorry for all you’ve been through, though 🙏 that sounds like a lot

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Def reading your post next!

      1. Laura Avatar

        Haha thank you 😊 probably have it up in an hour or so 🙏

  6. Sara Allwright Avatar

    Awww… I had the two level discectomy and fusion C3-5 two years ago…through the neck. If any consolation to you…it did the job 😁. Oh, and defo keep having sex in the back of the car 👍🤩✨

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Oooh I’m so glad that it worked!! Thank you, you’re the only person I’ve come across who’s had it done!! And yesss to the sex in the backseat 😆

      1. Sara Allwright Avatar

        It had to be done, the discs were indenting the spinal cord & osteophytes were growing! But a successful Op. And you’ve got to keep flexible…sex is defo the best option 😁😁

        1. justrojie Avatar

          Oh snaps! Well it gives me hope in the event I need to have it done in the future 💜 thank you!!!

          1. Sara Allwright Avatar

            Most welcome 😁💛

  7. ibarynt Avatar

    That’s quite a lot of accidents. Glad to see you’re living life large.

    My accidents were mostly clumsy me whenever I’ve tried to be dainty except one motor accident, partly still my fault 🤐.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Omfg I’m glad you’re ok!!!

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Yup, am fine. Just scars and broken bones here and there which trouble me from time to time. Life goes on 💥💥

  8. Info man Avatar

    You are so strong 💪🏻💪🏻 , btw love ‘night changes ‘ just how fast the night changes….🎵🎵🎵

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Such a good song 🥹

  9. Washedwoman Avatar

    Look in the mirror. See God’s perfect creation, new each morning, beautiful, and without fault or blame. What happened (with “ed”) is past, but you are living now, today, beautiful, today.

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