just rojie

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you’re so fkn special

Currently listening to: Creep – Radiohead.

Whatever makes you happy
Whatever you want
You’re so fuckin’ special
I wish I was special

It’s been a day to say the least.  There are days when I’ll turn my phone off just to escape from the digital world.  I dislike phone calls, especially from numbers that I don’t know and sometimes from numbers that I recognize.

I also don’t like receiving e-mails. I have it set up where a majority of it goes to spam or trash.  Even though I can read quickly, it just exerts way too much energy from me.  The texts are out of bounds.  I could go days or weeks without responding.  I know this pisses people off but I warn them in advance.

When I come home from work, my social battery is drained.  I need my personal space and time so I can do it all over again tomorrow.  Most of my friends are extroverts (energy vampires) so I don’t know if they comprehend what it’s like.  Because when I don’t answer or respond to them, they will send even more texts or God forbid…call me. And I’ll let it go straight to voicemail.  I don’t have the bandwidth for that after working 14-16 hours and going to the gym.

Just know that if I respond to your e-mails, texts, messages, dms or whatever…it means you’re special.

You’re so fucking special…


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22 responses to “you’re so fkn special”

  1. Niv Avatar

    I-
    I actually thought this post meant something else entirely. Idk if it’s appropriate for me but I cracked up at the end! I should probably send this to those friends who I religiously avoid 😶👍

    1. justrojie Avatar

      😂 haha would love to know what you thought this post was going to be about

      1. Niv Avatar

        Well I thought it was going to be a poem on why each human being is special-😂

        1. justrojie Avatar

          😆 that would be great idea for another post though

  2. Kamalani Avatar

    I don’t belong here

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Cause I’m a creep

      1. Kamalani Avatar

        I’m a weirdo

        1. justrojie Avatar

          What the hell am I doing here

          1. Kamalani Avatar

            I don’t belong here

  3. Samantha Josephine Hunter Avatar

    I have little to no energy most days, so I commiserate. But I make a conscious effort to answer at least my emails. 🙂

    1. justrojie Avatar

      My efforts are lost 😆 it depends on my mood and who’s sending the emails

      1. Kamalani Avatar

        *hint *hint #BAhahahahaha🤣🤣🤣

  4. Faizy Avatar

    Haha ,Am I ?

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Very much so

      1. Faizy Avatar

        Thanks a lot 😊😊😊

  5. ibarynt Avatar

    Awww thanks so much girl. Don’t forget ‘YOU are special’.

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you thank you 💜💜

  6. Kristen Beck Avatar

    Definitely went into this post thinking it was going to be one of those “Live Laugh Love, we are all so special” posts haha Glad to see that it was about something totally different that I actually really do relate to. I started a small carpet and upholstery cleaning business a while ago and I am EXHAUSTED at the end of most days. Some of my friends and family members have the audacity to ask for free cleanings. After a couple of months of catering to them, I’ve finally put myself first and let them know that they aren’t that special haha

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Hah! Good for you! If friends truly want to support they will spread the word to others about your business and not ask for a discount or wait to get the cleaning services when you have deals going on. You do you, cause no one else is going to! 💜

  7. Steven P Avatar

    I love it Rojie ✨️

    1. justrojie Avatar

      Thank you~~

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