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Month: July 2024

  • who? me?

    How would you describe yourself to someone who can’t see you? Currently listening to: Cruel Summer – Taylor Swift  I’m pretty sure we did a prompt like this before. Whatever, here we go again. I’m the kind of person who would want to crawl into a lap like a cat, wrap my arms around the…

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  • nightmare

    Buddy H asked me what I was doing tonight. Originally, I was going to work, study, and pass out but since he’s back in town, we ought to make the most of it. He asked me what I wanted to eat. Normally, I would have said sushi but I’m on this ridiculous diet right now:…

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  • sorry, but not sorry

    What traditions have you not kept that your parents had? Currently listening to: Money – Lisa Bitch, I do the money dance, I just made a hundred bandsWhen the store says “Sign for it, ” I’ma leave my autograph My parents had an arranged marriage.  They were brought together not by a spontaneous spark, but…

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  • straight from the tortured poets department version 1.0 (rojie’s version)

    Currently listening to: The Tortured Poets Department – Taylor Swift I laughed in your face and said, “You’re not Dylan Thomas, I’m not Patti Smith This ain’t the Chelsea Hotel, we’re modern idiots” The photograph was taken on a chilly autumn afternoon, it was the kind of day where the sun’s rays filtered through the…

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  • brat.summer

    Was today typical? Currently listening to: Don’t Cha – The Pussycat Dolls Side bar: Nicole Scherzinger’s body is so fucking perfect.  Inspo. Went to sleep with my 반수 absolutely 축축.  I was too sleepy to bother swapping it out with a fresh pair. I hit the snooze button twice and every time it went off,…

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  • no business

    Currently listening to: Blank Space – Taylor Swift “So it’s gonna be foreverOr it’s gonna go down in flamesYou can tell me when it’s over, mmIf the high was worth the painGot a long list of ex-loversThey’ll tell you I’m insane‘Cause you know I love the playersAnd you love the game” I have no business…

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  • who am i?

    How would you describe yourself to someone? I’m an INTJ-T (introverted, intuitive, thinking, judging traits and turbulent).  Most of my colleagues will tell you that I’m even keeled and that nothing seems to faze me. I recall there was an active shooter on campus at work and when we were under lockdown, I was nonchalant…

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  • simp

    Currently listening to: chk chk boom – stray kids If you would have told me that K-pop and K-drama would be mainstream when I was a child, I would have told you that you were full of shit.  Now look at this global influence and explosion of everything Korean (cuisine, music, shows/music, skin care, electronics,…

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  • gore king

    If you could bring back one dinosaur, which one would it be? This is a strange prompt but here we go.  Ever since grade school, I’ve had a tiny obsession with dinosaurs, but what child didn’t? I was particularly interested in the T-Rex because it was the top non-aviating apex predator.  Its shape was peculiar,…

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  • Protected: why

    There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

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  • asian baby girl

    Currently listening to: good 4 u – Olivia Rodrigo Amusing at best. BLOCKED.  

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  • time out

    If you won two free plane tickets, where would you go? If we’re going to be egregious, it would be the Four Seasons Seychelles for me.  Give me the helicopter journey, the floating breakfast in the pool, private sunset dinners, paddle boarding or snorkeling in the bluest waters, and being in the open relaxing air…

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  • pet names

    What’s the story behind your nickname? I have a few nicknames I’ve been given: 로지 보지 – this is self explanatory, my friends used to call me that, mostly because it rhymed and I can be crass hyunnie – a play on my Korean name + honey roro/ro – from Zaddy, who would occasionally call…

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  • lustful

    I haven’t seen her in weeks.  So much can happen during that time. Since then, she’s moved. Literally. Multiple times. She moved out of her old place and into a high-rise. She moved on from her ex-boyfriend to the ambiguous realms of situationships. She moved on from daunting moments to having exhilarating experiences.  She appeared…

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  • self-care

    What strategies do you use to maintain your health and well-being? For me, there are several things that I do to maintain some sort of balance. I also believe in karma so I don’t get riled up when people have wronged me. “Even chance meetings … are the result of karma. …things in life are…

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  • taking flight

    What are your future travel plans? Currently listening to: 360 – Charlie XCX I have a couple of plans for the summer but it’s all dependent on when he’s going to be on set to film. So I guess we’ll see if it happens, otherwise I have backup girl trips planned for a brat summer….

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  • daily thoughts part I (the sassy edition)

    Random thoughts throughout the day.  They are very much random and unnecessary. Currently listening to: Luxurious by Gwen Stefani ft. Slim Thug is such a vibe. “C’est pas possible cet amour C’est incroyable Tu me fais transpirer C’est parfait” I’m so having a brat summer. Can’t stop, won’t stop. Main character energy. Work so hard…

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  • we are the world

    What would you change about modern society? As for myself, I’m doing the following: reduce plastic pollution be more empathetic to my patients adopted a rescue dog donate to charity express gratitude precept new staff not being judgmental  support local shops unplugging from the socials regularly tutor students be inclusive I would want free education…

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  • say less

    Currently listening to: Smells Like Teen Spirit – Nirvana With the lights out, it’s less dangerous Here we are now, entertain us I feel stupid and contagious Here we are now, entertain us 씨발, I’m good.  Thx. XOXO  

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  • unwritten letter #1

    My friend, who had previously taken me to a sushi restaurant, also introduced me to the enchanting world of Vienna Teng. The concert was intimate, not held in a grand stadium or concert hall, but in a cozy venue with about 75 attendees. It was quaint and utterly delightful, a setting where Vienna’s melodic voice…

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  • listen up

    What do you listen to while you work? I don’t listen to music while I’m at work because I have to be on the lookout for any slight noises with my stethoscope, alarms on pumps, changes in a person’s voice/tone, overhead pages, and whatever the staff or patients are saying. If I’m interacting with young…

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  • foodie

    What’s your go-to comfort food? I love different cuisines but the one that I keep going back to is sushi or nigiri.  It’s best eaten when I’m happy, sad, or just cause. When I was at uni, I befriended a couple of sushi chefs and they were so happy to have me sample their latest…

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  • games

    What’s your favorite game (card, board, video, etc.)? Why? My fav card game is cards against humanity.  It’s so unhinged that I can’t stop laughing thinking about it.  I can’t even explain the game, except that it’s highly inappropriate most of the times.   My fav board game is risk.  It’s a classic and extremely time…

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  • intj

    One of my colleagues is really into Myers-Briggs personality types and suggested I check out my results.  I’ve had a few of my friends partake in the quiz that’s free online, https://www.16personalities.com/ .  I’d be curious to see what yours would be so if you’d kindly indulge in my inquisitiveness, I’d greatly appreciate it. I…

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  • napa: press

    What foods would you like to make? I would love to make decadent foods from places where my friends and I’ve dined at.  Unfortunately, that probably won’t happen any time soon as I am not chef.  One of the most memorable experiences was at Press.   This is where the magic happens.  Although, it’s not a…

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  • traitor

    Currently listening to: My Tears Ricochet – Taylor Swift My previous blog was about my trysts and heartaches.  Those were the best and worst moments for me.  IYKYK. A friend of mine was feverishly reading my salacious posts and when we started hanging out more frequently, I could tell that he was interested in me. …

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  • both

    Dogs or cats? I love animals…more than people.  They’re loyal and they don’t lie. They were the love(s) of my life.  Miss them so much.

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  • the winsome ones

    Generally speaking, I can be very sweet. And then there are times when I can be an absolute bitch. It’s not that I want to be but it’s because I’m put into that situation.  I hate being boring or bored so there’s that. Also,쌍놈 (ssang nom) is slang for fk boi.

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  • mini update

    An update on my face situation since my chemical peel on Friday.  The new skin is emerging, smooth as a baby’s ass.  While I’m at work, I wear a mask because I don’t want people to feel uncomfortable around me nor do I want a dozen people asking me what happened to my face. One…

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  • bye bye miss minutes

    Which activities make you lose track of time? TBH, since the pandemic started, everything has been a blur.  Time has just gone into warp speed and here we are in 2024.  There are so many things that I’ll have to compile a quick list for this… concerts, I wish they could just keep going on…

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  • study

    When I study, it’s for long periods of time.  I’ll be up in my room with the room light on along with my vitamin D light.  I’ll have lofi music (live) on YouTube playing in the background, people tend to chat on there but I don’t participate in that otherwise it takes away from my…

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  • bothersome

    What bothers you and why? Not a lot bothers me but things like this (see pic) annoys the fuck outta me.  This happened a while ago (at my previous residence) but it still pissed me off.  The audacity. Whoever wrote this does NOT own the streets, there are no designated parking spaces on the street,…

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  • i don’t wanna brag…

    I’m taking a study break… 2024 anyone?  The only John Legend song that I love.  I used to have this playing on repeat for about hours when Zaddy introduced me to this song.  NGL, but Zaddy had excellent taste in music.  Anyway, I memorized all the lyrics (even Luda’s lol) and figured out the chords…

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  • this is my tenth reason

    List 10 things you know to be absolutely certain. Even though I say that anything is possible, there are some things that are absolutely certain. There are new developments and clinical trials trying to prolong life but in the end, everyone dies.  This upcoming election is a cluster fuck.   Newton’s laws of motion.  Yes, all…

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  • as of late

    In heavy rotation: Lose my breath – Stray Kids Hilarious – Charlie Puth 4 in the Morning – Gwen Stefani The More You Ignore Me, The Closer I Get – Morrissey NDA – Billie Eilish Five star asked me if I wanted to go to a rooftop bottle service party in WeHo Friday night.  Had…

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  • therefore i am

    Are you seeking security or adventure? Life is about balancing the thrill of adventure with the comfort of security. It’s a delicate dance that requires flexibility and an open mind.  It’s the life I live as a Gemini. As an intellectual adventurer, there’s nothing quite like the rush of discovering new things. My mind is…

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  • feet finder

    I renewed my sub for feet finder. In case you’re curious, here’s my feet finder profile.  It’s a site to sell feet pics, there are some sellers who do more than that, but I’m just sticking with feet pics. I’ll be adding the link into my main site later in August when I have more…

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  • hello kitty

    Look at me.  I was so happy to be there.  My friends used to invite me to all these Hello Kitty events because they were deep into the fandom. I love Hello Kitty but my friends love her even more.  They have rooms dedicated to display all their Sanrio products.  Most of the things that…

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  • dinner time

    If you could host a dinner and anyone you invite was sure to come, who would you invite? Dead or alive guests: There are so many celebrities I would want to invite, but first of all, I’d invite my late father.  I miss him so much.  Obvi, my mom would be present as well. Secondly,…

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  • better than ever

    What do you think gets better with age?   There are so many times that I wished I was back in high school but there are sooo many things that gets better with age such as: my choice in men (lol) confidence cheese wine art anything Sanrio or Tokidoki relationship with my mom friendships appreciation…

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  • commander

    The first time I went to their house party, I noticed her immediately.  She was the commander on one of my favorite television shows.  In the fucking flesh.  I couldn’t believe it. Inside, I was feeling nervous and fan girling, as if I met an A-lister.  She wasn’t an A-lister but the fact that she…

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  • sleep cycle

    What time do you go to bed and wake up currently? My sleep cycle is utter trash right now. The heat wave that us Californians are enduring right now is sucking the life out of me. It’s so draining to be in this heat that it makes me want to sleep all the time. I…

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  • gratitude

    Currently listening to:  Olivia Rodrigo – Traitor This was from a couple of weeks ago, I’m behind per usual.  At any rate, I’m so honored by this.  I truly am.  Thank you for making my come back so much better than I expected. If you have any blogging prompts/questions that you feel would be a…

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  • the queen b

    I’d like to preface that the show was inspired by real-life events but it was not all factual. As a fan of the Bridgerton series, I was beyond excited for Queen Charlotte, and it did not disappoint. The cast was phenomenal, with Corey Mylchreest delivering an outstanding performance as King George III. His portrayal of the…

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  • me time

    What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life? Well, let’s start with the basics, shall we? Sleeping in a comfortable bed with soft pillows and blankets are a must.  Coffee or espresso in the morning to provide me with a boost.  Then there are the naps that I take or doom…

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  • back to the future

    What are you most excited about for the future? The destination is unknown. The heart could beat one minute and in the next…torn.You are someone, then no one.It’s been fun, it’s been a good run.Duress, stress, finesse, caresse, I must confess.Nothing is promised, yet the possibilities are endless.

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  • so let go

    What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony? I could let go of my pride. I check my ego at work every day. No one is fucking special, we are all on the same playing field and to be honest, I’m really okay with that. It’s rather refreshing. A lot of things…

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  • música

    What is your favorite genre of music? Well, isn’t this a loaded question to ask a concert pianist? Obvi, I love classical…pop, gangsta rap, old school hip hop, progressive trance, techno, euro dance, tribal house, indie, grunge, post grunge, alternative rock, reggaeton, Latin, K-pop, J-pop, and Lo-fi. 

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  • my cup runneth over

    I know she means well but sometimes, I’m like…confused?  She’s said this to me SEVERAL times about how I can’t pour from an empty cup. I get that’s something she’s learning with her therapist.  I feel like I’m pouring into my own cup instead of someone else’s?  I’m not sure our situation is the same….

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  • dream vacay

    Describe your most memorable vacation. One of the most memorable vacations I ever had was a trip to Oahu with my mom a couple of years after my dad passed away at the age of forty seven. My mom and I never really saw eye-to-eye; I was always more of a daddy’s little girl, while…

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  • i said what i said

    On what subject(s) are you an authority? There are a few things that I know something about: chronic disease states pokémon information systems classical piano pieces boy bands Korean skin care doom scrolling rotting in bed 

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  • IYKYK #zaddy

    I was watching Jo Koy’s latest stand up on Netflix and I laughed so fucking hard. #Zaddy

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  • 로맨스

    What’s your definition of romantic? This is a loaded question for a Korean. *grin*  The expectations are high and honestly, it’s nearly damn impossible to even achieve K-drama romance with anyone.  The closest I’ve seen it was in the Beckham docuseries.  Le sigh. Being romantic consists of the following: deep physical and psychological attraction writing…

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  • f around and find out (literally and figuratively)

    In heavy rotation: Tomorrow – Morrissey The Tortured Poets Department – Taylor Swift Bitches Broken Hearts – Billy Eillish Zaddy had enough red flags to sail the seven seas and I was there for the ride.  First class. The nasty and mean texts became a regular occurrence whenever he got mad at me. Each hurtful…

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  • 10-q

    How do you express your gratitude? Obviously, I’d tell the person “thank you” and. depending on the situation, I might buy the person a thoughtful gift as a token of my appreciation or an amazing meal.  If it’s for a service provided, I’ll give a generous tip.  Those are typically my go, but every once…

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  • feetfinder

    After I’m done with my exams, I might have to get back onto feetfinder. I had a lot of people (women and men) buy my feet pics from the site but I just couldn’t keep up with posting new feet pics.  At that time, I was working so much and getting regular pedicures was becoming…

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  • the future

    What are you most worried about for the future? I have concerns about a few things: AI becoming sentient climate change inflation war GMO foods school shootings What about you?

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