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Month: June 2024

  • stay at home

    I was sequestered (by choice) at home all day.  I was catching up on life and trying to prepare for the upcoming weekend and work week. My sleep schedule is all sorts of fucked up.  I woke up at 0240 and tried to go back to sleep but that wasn’t happening.  I cooked myself an…

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  • greatness

    What makes a teacher great? Hmm when I look back at the influential teachers/professors that I’ve had, these were a few things that made them phenomenal: relatable, they would share small bits of their lives with us…it helped us remember that they are human too. empathetic highly intelligent, I didn’t need someone who was going…

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  • surgical maneuvers

    Have you ever had surgery? What for? I’ve had surgery for dermabrasion from horrible chicken pox scars that were left on my face when I was younger. When I had all four of my wisdom teeth taken out all at once, the dentist put me under. I remember waking up and asking my parents if…

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  • post

    Currently listening to: Fortnight – Taylor Swift feat. Post Malone Random thoughts about Post Malone: I love this collab so much…plus the actors Ethan Hawke and Josh Charles paying homage to The Dead Poets Society in this video (Fortnight is a song from The Tortured Poets Department). Get you someone who looks at you like…

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  • in a day

    What are your daily habits? My weekends in general differ from my weekdays. My weekdays are a carefully orchestrated blend of routine and necessity.   Each day kicks off with:

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  • …today though…

    I was headed into work when I noticed that the signs said that the I-5 Southbound freeway was shut down.  Initially, I was very agitated because who does construction on a Thursday morning?  Then I found out quickly that there was a huge crash on the freeway earlier this morning and three people passed away…

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  • lifestyle

    Are there things you try to practice daily to live a more sustainable lifestyle? I do a few things to help the cause: Drive a hybrid car Use LED lights Limit the use of heater and AC Take the stairs vs elevators Eat less meat, except when it’s going to be that time of the…

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  • blame brett

    I absolutely love this song. Blame Brett by The Beaches The second part of the music video is giving a tamer Fiona Apple’s “Criminal” version. Video takes place in a grungy 70’s looking basement with dirty ass carpeting/floor, paneled walls and vintage furniture…definitely giving a heroin chic vibe mixed with a 90’s raw appeal. “I’m…

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  • most delicious

    What’s the most delicious thing you’ve ever eaten? If you asked him, he would say, “네 보지” *grins devilishly* For me, it’s the Michelin Star Kenzo Napa prepared bento box (double layer) with a full flight of estate wines in the Bakken designed tasting room. It consisted of: US prime beef striploin Kuwayaki, Sawara Mackerel…

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  • texts

    Him: And then there’s me: “Picturing you naked is the most productive thing I’ve done all day.” “You’re in my inappropriate thoughts.”  

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  • over and over again

    If you were forced to wear one outfit over and over again, what would it be? Honestly, it would be this ensemble.  I must have worn this hundreds of times.   The tank top is from Stussy.  The bottom is from Macy’s (it’s a short skirt with leggings).  I’ve washed this so many times that it’s…

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  • big project

    I’m thinking of doing something outside of the box, it’s so fucking exciting for me and I can’t wait to share this with everyone. It’s also something I should have done years ago when I was at the peak of my blogging phenomenon. Anyway, I’m looking for an artist.  Granted, I probably wouldn’t be able…

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  • spiritual mix

    How important is spirituality in your life? Without spirituality, we would be nothing but zombies.  Spirituality provides me with:  purpose for living  connecting with others inner happiness increased self-esteem enlightenment To me, spirituality is different than cultural customs and regions.  I believe in a higher being.  My beliefs are a mix between: Shamanism, Taoism, Confucianism, Buddhism,…

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  • low key

    Mood: cheeky, enraptured Slept: nine hours, I wore myself out Currently listening to: Mastermind – Taylor Swift “What if I told you none of it was accidentalAnd the first night that you saw me, I knew I wanted your body?I laid the groundwork and then, just like clockworkThe dominoes cascaded in a line What if…

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  • self care

    How do you practice self-care? I do a lot of things for myself: masturbate (trust me, it relieves a lot of tension/stress) keep a balanced sex life retail therapy deep breathing exercise intermittent fasting stay hydrated sleep in setting boundaries journal/blog watch a movie or go to a concert meet up with friends prioritizing myself…

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  • 딸딸이

    Sometimes, I have to help myself. Today was a good day.

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  • time vampire

    How do you waste the most time every day? Streaming services suck up my time: Hulu, Prime, Max, Disney+, Netflix, and Paramount plus.  I get caught up with the true crime documentaries or shows like Bridgerton, k-dramas, or the Umbrella Academy.  It’s my escape from reality…

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  • dream a little dream

    Currently listening to: L0L0 – Hot Girls in Hell I blissfully fell asleep last night and before I knew it, I was having a bizarre dream. Zaddy was sleeping next to me whilst wearing my Hello Kitty sweatshirt that was much too small for him. He looked ridiculous. I woke up to go to the…

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  • take me back

    Which food, when you eat it, instantly transports you to childhood? 짜장면 always takes me back to when I was little and in the motherland. I crave these black bean noodles (beef or vegetarian with an egg on top) often, it pairs well with sweet and sour chicken or pork. I am not a fan…

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  • soulmate

    Exit two, enter two. She was the only one who I would tell about my trysts. Every single juicy little detail.  Jules was probably the most beautiful Korean I’ve ever met.  We bonded when I was living in the Midwest and we quickly became best friends.  She used to inspire me to write about certain…

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  • lies

    I question everything he’s told me because I feel like it’s all been a lie.  I let my emotions get the better of me.  I got swept off my feet by this Zaddy giant and was floating on cloud nine. But if I look at the facts only, it doesn’t add up.  The math ain’t…

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  • Korean memoir

    Who is your favorite historical figure? Queen Seon Duk (선덕여왕).   In a historical twist that would make any royal drama proud, Princess Deokman became Queen Seondeok, making her the first reigning queen of Silla and the first female monarch in Korean history. Her ascent to the throne in 632 AD was not without its challenges….

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  • the first

    Write about your first crush. My first boyfriend was my first crush.  I was fourteen going on fifteen.  He was sixteen going on seventeen. Of Hawaiian and German descent. Dark haired, 6′, tan, fit, and stylish.  He had a smile that made me melt.  His voice was soothing and I could listen to it all day.He was…

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  • summer time

    I’m so ready for the summer. The plans: Concerts Travel Working out Rooftop dining Road trips Traipsing down memory lane

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  • around the world

    What countries do you want to visit? There are so many places I’d love to visit. I’d love to start off with these:

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  • villain arc

    Currently listening to: Forever – 수호 POV: me entering my villain era I’m removing toxic relationships from my life, prioritizing myself, becoming slightly unhinged, and setting stronger boundaries.  It’s a main character energy vibe. I’ve blocked many people on my socials.  It’s been long overdue to be honest and it’s as if a weight has…

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  • about me

    What’s your favorite thing about yourself? There are a few things that I fancy about myself: Oh, I’m super adventurous.  I like to push the envelope.  I love to be naughty, spontaneous, and open-minded.  I like to explore new horizons and embrace diverse perspectives.  Life should be exciting and full of fun.  I’m a gemini,…

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  • in a day…

    Current mood: salty AF, thinking about Zaddy put me in a mood Accomplished: studied for four hours, there’s still more to do Finished binging: 30 for 30 the Life and Trials of Oscar Pistorius This is my usual daily consumption: lentil chips gluten free chips and an assortment of nuts small slices of cheese egg…

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  • retirement

    How do you want to retire? I dream about this quite often.  Honestly, I can’t wait… Obviously, I’d take the steps to ensure that I’d be comfortable and live in the lifestyle I’ve grown accustomed to. I want to retire early so that I have ample time to check things off my bucket list, enjoy…

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  • horoscope for the day

    Well, isn’t this a bitch…and very much accurate.

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  • on the daily

    What’s the oldest thing you own that you still use daily? It would be me, myself, and I. Runner up is my Apple Watch. I forgot what generation it is but it’s at least older than my phone.

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  • zaddy

    Currently listening to: We Don’t Talk Anymore I was watching a show on Netflix and all of a sudden it hit me. The reason why Zaddy never invited me to his place or introduced me to his friends was because he was FUCKING married.  He seemed to be prevaricate whenever I’d ask him. For YEARS,…

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  • fav moments

    Describe one of your favorite moments. I have so many fav moments:  winning piano state and national competitions having hot sex in my car going to a Taylor Swift concert and being in an awesome suite getting the keys to his place after a month of dating graduating with honors, thrice dining at the French…

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  • ummm…

    So this happened…someone saw this and sent it to me. I don’t know why anyone would want to use my tiny profile picture, blow it up all blurry, and use my image in a blog post…especially without permission.

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  • today…

    What notable things happened today? UPDATE:  I lost all my CryptoKitties.FML. I think it’s too early to say since it’s about midnight. So I’ll have to update this later on and let y’all know.

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  • gifted

    I’m super lucky to have such amazing family and friends.  This year, I was gifted many things.  Pictured are the Jungkook shirt and Gemini necklace given to me by friends.  I love them.  

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  • more passion

    What are you passionate about? This is a loaded question. There are so many things I’m passionate about: music art REALLY good sex foods – ranging from fine dining to gastropubs to food stalls blogging Korean skincare travel health personal growth dogs and cats money expanding my knowledge coffee/espresso true crime documentaries

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  • the timing isn’t right

    My friend won three tickets to a concert in Chicago this weekend.  She asked me if I could go.  Unfortunately, the timing is horrible as I have to work, study, and have dinner reservations at a Michelin-star restaurant. And then she told me that the concert also entailed a meet and greet and the seats…

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  • seasons change

    What is your favorite season of year? Why? There are a lot of reasons I love autumn/fall:

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  • write hard, felt harder

    “A total inability to stop thinking about you…feelings like dreaming of you when I’m asleep.  And in fact, preferring sleep because that is where I might find you.  A feeling that is like torture.  But one which I cannot, will not, do not want to give up.” – Colin Bridgerton  

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  • love bombing

    Do you love-bomb? Or do you love being love-bombed? I don’t do either.   Le sigh. Many of my friends have expressed that they would love to be love-bombed.  Me?  Not so much.  It just makes me suspicious of the person and if someone comes at me too hard initially, it makes me want to distance…

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  • can’t live without it

    What’s the one luxury you can’t live without? Luxuries I can’t live without: my home internet cell phone americanos or regular espresso my car health insurance (sad to say but it’s expensive in the U.S.) Luxuries I could live without but I don’t want to: hot sex exquisite food traveling streaming services nespresso maker concerts…

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  • tagged

    If humans had taglines, what would yours be? My tagline would be: love, write, and thrive.

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  • new peeps

    I’ve been getting more likes on my blog entries and followers. I’m loving it.  Thank you so much. Love y’all, XOXO  

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  • the good life

    What are the most important things needed to live a good life? I’d say there are a few things you’d need for a good life:

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  • smells like teen spirit

    Before going out, I’d make sure that everything was waxed (Brazilian) or shaved clean.  I’d take a warm bath and exfoliate the multiple layers of dead skin off my body (with a Korean cloth) till it felt l felt smooth like a baby’s ass. I’d apply a lightweight moisturizer all over my body to keep…

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  • together

    Who do you spend the most time with? I spend the most time with myself.  During my alone time, I think about all the things that I need to do.  I’m constantly prioritizing my day.  I think about streamlining things, daydreaming, and working on myself.  Other than myself, the people I spend a lot of…

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  • see you later

    Currently listening to: See U Later – Blackpink Can’t believe how busy this summer is already.  A friend asked me a few days ago when I’d be available to hang out next and I had to tell him mid-August.  Since then, more friends have reached out to “book an appointment” with me.  LOL.  Now, it’s…

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  • what’s in a name

    If you had to change your name, what would your new name be? If I could change my name, it would be Athena.

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  • summertime

    I can’t believe that summer is just around the corner. I’m debating on whether or not to do beach curls again this summer.  Thoughts? It’s also time to get super serious about getting into the hot girl summer vibe.  I know, I’m late to the game but I’ve been hella busy.

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  • milky choco

    Describe your dream chocolate bar. Add some hazelnut to this bar and this would be my dream chocolate bar. I know that dark chocolate is healthier but for me, I am not a fan of the bitterness. I need the milky goodness with nuts for texture.

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  • the classics

    Do you remember your favorite book from childhood? There are a few books that I loved when I was a child.  Where the Sidewalk Ends Where the Wild Things Are The Little Prince The Giving Tree Madeline Oh, the Places You’ll Go

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  • filming

    Two of my friends are in the midst of creating and filming documentaries and it’s so fucking awesome. I wish I had that skill set.  I’m hella excited for them and oh so proud. This is their moment. A producer friend is trying to get us on a popular show.  LOLOL.  We’ll see what happens…

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  • breeding fetish

    I remember once he asked me if I had a breeding fetish.  I didn’t. I don’t recall a time where I’ve ever wanted to have children, which is probably odd for a lot of people.  I love kids…other people’s children. But also ask me if I used protection while we were together?  Funny, I did…

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  • influence

    List three books that have had an impact on you. Why? There are three books that made an impact on me: The Sorrows of Young Werther, I learned about how unrequited love can bring one insane joy and torment. It had a deep influence on romanticism.  This book is banned in many countries.“I sometimes cannot…

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  • who’s afraid of little old me?

    What fears have you overcome and how? There are plenty of fears I overcame, but these are the top three: being a disappointment.  I stopped worrying about what people expected or wanted (especially my parents) and all I could do was my best. public speaking.  I’ve been tasked to provide trainings and lectures to my…

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  • if he really wanted to, he would

    I think about it quite often.  “If he really wanted to, he would.” I had a conversation with a friend of mine who recently broke up with her boyfriend.  She told me all the things he didn’t do but promised to do…and my response was, “If he really wanted to, he would.” And the truth…

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  • party time

    We went to a concert the other night and I had so much fun.  Look at me acting like I didn’t have to work the next morning or that I didn’t stay out late the night before for a movie screening and worked twelve hours. Since we had VIP passes, we were able to enter…

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  • it’s the little things

    Describe one simple thing you do that brings joy to your life. One thing that brings me joy is good sleep.  I have anemia so I get fatigued easily but nothing makes me happier than a peaceful night’s rest for eight or more hours.  

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