i can fix him (no really i can) (rojie’s version)

LINK: i can fix him (no really i can) (rojie’s version)

Currently listening to: I Can Fix Him (No Really I Can) – Taylor Swift

They shake their heads saying, “God help her”
When I tell them he’s my man
But your good Lord doesn’t need to lift a finger
I can fix him, no, really I can
And only I can

I recall a moment when Zaddy, commented on my lack of refinement.  If my memory serves me, he said I was “rough around the edges” amongst other things.  His words cut me metaphorically like a knife to the heart.  Inwardly, I couldn’t help but scoff.  I held my tongue even though I wanted to say horrible things to him.  I could feel the hurt and anger burning from within.  Why was he with me if he thought I needed to change so drastically? Wasn’t I enough?  What in the actual fuck?  And for a flicker of a second, I wanted him to feel how I felt.  But I refrained.

Love should be about acceptance, not about fixing or changing someone. It’s about embracing each other’s flaws and celebrating the unique qualities that make us who we are. We all have our own journeys, our own paths to self-discovery and growth.

So, to all the people who think they can change me, I say, “Fuck it.” I refuse to be tamed or molded into a version of myself that doesn’t feel authentic. I am unapologetically me, and that’s something I will never compromise on.